"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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!!!Facebook game!!!

Cockynfunny

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Hey guys, ****ynfunny is here. I've registered on the site ages ago and learnt a lot.

The reason why I am posting this thread is because I need your advice for a tricky situation.

There is this girl at my 6th form (colledge), she hasn't ever spoken to me before, but a couple of days ago we were playing table football and I had an awesome advantage to bust her balls BIIIG TIME, she laughed and cracked up I didnt give her a chance to come up with a comeback, she was laughing that much.

Next day she added me on facebook and said that she liked our friendship.

Here is our convo :

Me: Hey.... you gotta earn the right to be a proper friend of mine:p

Her: and how would I go about doing thatt then? :p

Me: are you funny? do you like ice cream? do you like pink elephants?(qualifying her)

Her: i'm a hoooott! i love ice cream! and how could you NOT like pink elephants?

Me: you are sooooo desperate to be my friend, (her first name) the rude girl (her second name). *she likes to swear a lot*

I'll think about it.....

Her: yes I very am.
and I'm glad you willll :)

Me: add me on msn [email protected] unless you are not kool and havent got it...



she never replied back and hasnt added me, although she received my message whilst online on facebook

how could i get back on the right track with her, guys? PLEEEASE!!! HELP ME, she is so fit. She is one of those girls that make you go all wild inside (i never show it on the outside of course) :crackup:
Best regards from ****ynfunny
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nice, good job except why would you to tell her to add you on some other internet thing? Get her number.
 

Cockynfunny

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well cause everybody is always on msn, but i see watcha mean... will do next time i get to talk to her:D

but what i am worried about is the fact that she didnt reply and hasnt added me:(
 

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Just go up to her the next time you see her in real life, and bust her (hopefully metaphorical) balls about her not returning your message.
 

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Clearly she isn't 'cool' enough to have msn, I bet shes messed up about realising that. Looks like a small backfire. Eh, leave it for a few days then try again but get her number.

Also, don't be on msn all the time and don't have long chats on msn. In fact, block the girls you are gaming most of the time. If you are on msn all the time, you have no life. Any conversation on msn is one less that you can have in person really showing CnF and kino. Asking her out on msn is easier, but its a bit weak.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah, the only point of getting her number or msn or myspace or whatever is to arrange to see her in person, NOT to talk.
 

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thanks guys, you've been really helpful, its half term now, so i dont see her untill 2nd of november, i shall bust her balls then lol:rockon:
 

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Grow a pair and talk to her in person, not in front of a freakin computer screen. Simple as that man. I have a rule of NEVER asking for a girls num, aim, msn, anything like that, without doing it in person.
 

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sageproduct said:
Yeah, the only point of getting her number or msn or myspace or whatever is to arrange to see her in person, NOT to talk.
This man speaks the truth. Get her number and get a meeting set up. Set yourself apart from all the other chumps who talk to her over MSN and on Facebook.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the problem with msn is not everyone has it...(maybe that's not the case where you're from?)

if she DEFINITELY has msn AND uses it a lot, then I think you're fine. she's probably just playing push-pull with you. next time you see her bust on her

but if she doesn't use msn and she hasn't provided you with an alternative means of contact it might mean she lost interest. I find that girls lose interest really quickly if things don't line up right -- they just have too many options to micromanage small details like setting up a new online communication platform
 

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just recently i got into the social circle she hangs around with and busted on her, she seems to like me a lot and we flirted all the way through our cheeky convo. But I think everything is ****ed now cause I told my friend that I like the girl and she just told everyone!!!!:(

Even if the girl I like liked me back, she probably won't anymore because all the mistery of does he like me/ does he not faded:(

Lesson learnt.........
 
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