"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Facebook experiment, step by step!

Shivastorm_88

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So I found an extremely hot girl on facebook (IMO) that's friend with a girl that I used to work with and that is also on my facebook (if anyone recall I made a post about how to approach). I found a website explaining how to do facebook approaches and decided to give it a shot. I shall post it step by step (as in message by message) to do a field report - or should I say, a facebook report (yea, lame, I know :D)

Obviously the names will be changed for privacy purpose.

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Today at 10:51am
Oh no, not another Harry Potter lover! That's so nerdy! Hahah, I love it!

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Today at 10:53am
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lmaoo its not my fault i was hooked from the young age of 10!!
do i know you?



Now I'll only answer her tomorrow as to show that im not needy and blablablah. Everytime I post something and she answers I'll post it here, until either I get a date with her, or she blows me off :whistle:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AAAgent

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did u message her randomly and say that? did her pf pic have something harry potter related? did u comment on a mutual photo?

if you can provide more details we can understand how your approach came about. unless it was literally a message from the blue.
 

Shivastorm_88

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Yea you're right, I'll give more details. So it's a message I sent via Facebook Inbox, I never ever talked to her before, neither on Facebook, Internet, phone or face to face so it's really a message out of the blue. Lastly, the Harry Potter thing is taken from her profile

I'm not used to making FR or whatever so if you got any questions feel free to ask, but now I go to work!
 

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You should also message the girl you used to work with in similar light trivial conversation. X will ask that girl about you, and if you are messaging both, then X won't be able to tell if you are hitting on her or not. That is key. Just like in real life, act like you don't notice she's hot. Make her have to guess about your intentions.

I have used myspace instead of facebook, but in similar fashion to what you are doing. I posted a lot to this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128126

Good luck.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shivastorm_88

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Bible_Belt said:
You should also message the girl you used to work with in similar light trivial conversation. X will ask that girl about you, and if you are messaging both, then X won't be able to tell if you are hitting on her or not. That is key. Just like in real life, act like you don't notice she's hot. Make her have to guess about your intentions.

I have used myspace instead of facebook, but in similar fashion to what you are doing. I posted a lot to this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128126

Good luck.
thanks that's actually a very good idea I guess I could write her as well. Although the ex-collegue I wrote her a few times on her wall (with her writing back I aint that loser! hahah) so I guess I could go at it again tomorrow when I'll write to X again


oh and: my next post will probably be something in the lines of: hahah no excuse! you had so much time to break free of it's clutch but you didn't! heheh! You seem to have really good taste in TV shows (family guy rocks!) What's the funniest family guy episode you ever saw?

Or actually I might ask: ... You seem to have really good taste in TV shows (family guy rocks!) If you could, which family guy character would you be?

The second one shows more originality, it's too bland to ask what the favorite episode is IMO

I don't have much material to play with in her profile, so... :/ anyways, opinions?
 

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here is something powerful:

1. Stop banter.

2. Throw a random cold read at her (link it to her facial features, or whateevr you can find on her photo collection)

3. Let her respond, doesn't matter what she says, send this message - "You know what, I've noticed good looking girls don't usually have anything interesting going for them. Tell me 3 interesting things about you".

4. Show your interest now but keep her reeled in (don't give away all your intent)

5. Close/fix a date.
 
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