Facebook email confusion.. advice please

[ShiftyShaun]

I met an HB9 about 4 months ago and started emailing her on facebook. I really didn't have much game back then (complimenting her and being nice, funny but not ****y) and after 2 replies she ignored my 3rd email.

2 months later i saw her at a club and decided to ignore her. I could tell she was making eyes at me but continued to ignore her as she did me (with the email). A week later she replied to my email apologising for the late reply claiming 'it was a busy few months'. By now i had a bit more knowledge about how to treat HB9s/10s and negged her, was ****y and funny etc.

She loved this and she was the one initiating convo. i waited days before replying which seemed to help my cause. I couldn't help but reply quicker as time went by and started fishing for her number... she hasn't replied and its been two weeks. Was it my quick replies that ruined the game? advice much appreciated :wave:

 

[katatonia]

Was it my quick replies that ruined the game?

Yes.

Now pull back and completely ignore her until she reinitiates and go from there. Control yourself and don't seem eager, let her chase you.

 

[ShiftyShaun]

And if she doesn't? forget about it?

 

[sebastian11]

I met an HB9 about 4 months ago and started emailing her on facebook. I really didn't have much game back then (complimenting her and being nice, funny but not ****y) and after 2 replies she ignored my 3rd email.

2 months later i saw her at a club and decided to ignore her. I could tell she was making eyes at me but continued to ignore her as she did me (with the email). A week later she replied to my email apologising for the late reply claiming 'it was a busy few months'. By now i had a bit more knowledge about how to treat HB9s/10s and negged her, was ****y and funny etc.

She loved this and she was the one initiating convo. i waited days before replying which seemed to help my cause. I couldn't help but reply quicker as time went by and started fishing for her number... she hasn't replied and its been two weeks. Was it my quick replies that ruined the game? advice much appreciated :wave:

dont seem too eager but dont take days to respond either, you cant build up a rapport with a girl if it takes days to reply.

 

[CaptainJ]

dont seem too eager but dont take days to respond either, you cant build up a rapport with a girl if it takes days to reply.

You can't build rapport on Facebook. Period.

Stop beating around the bush and just get her number, take her out. And if she's not interested then just bail.