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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Facebook email confusion.. advice please

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ShiftyShaun

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I met an HB9 about 4 months ago and started emailing her on facebook. I really didn't have much game back then (complimenting her and being nice, funny but not ****y) and after 2 replies she ignored my 3rd email.

2 months later i saw her at a club and decided to ignore her. I could tell she was making eyes at me but continued to ignore her as she did me (with the email). A week later she replied to my email apologising for the late reply claiming 'it was a busy few months'. By now i had a bit more knowledge about how to treat HB9s/10s and negged her, was ****y and funny etc.

She loved this and she was the one initiating convo. i waited days before replying which seemed to help my cause. I couldn't help but reply quicker as time went by and started fishing for her number... she hasn't replied and its been two weeks. Was it my quick replies that ruined the game? advice much appreciated :wave:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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katatonia

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ShiftyShaun said:
Was it my quick replies that ruined the game?
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Yes.

Now pull back and completely ignore her until she reinitiates and go from there. Control yourself and don't seem eager, let her chase you.
 
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sebastian11

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ShiftyShaun said:
I met an HB9 about 4 months ago and started emailing her on facebook. I really didn't have much game back then (complimenting her and being nice, funny but not ****y) and after 2 replies she ignored my 3rd email.

2 months later i saw her at a club and decided to ignore her. I could tell she was making eyes at me but continued to ignore her as she did me (with the email). A week later she replied to my email apologising for the late reply claiming 'it was a busy few months'. By now i had a bit more knowledge about how to treat HB9s/10s and negged her, was ****y and funny etc.

She loved this and she was the one initiating convo. i waited days before replying which seemed to help my cause. I couldn't help but reply quicker as time went by and started fishing for her number... she hasn't replied and its been two weeks. Was it my quick replies that ruined the game? advice much appreciated :wave:
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dont seem too eager but dont take days to respond either, you cant build up a rapport with a girl if it takes days to reply.
 
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CaptainJ

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sebastian11 said:
dont seem too eager but dont take days to respond either, you cant build up a rapport with a girl if it takes days to reply.
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You can't build rapport on Facebook. Period.

Stop beating around the bush and just get her number, take her out. And if she's not interested then just bail.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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