"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Facebook - do you add plates as friends?

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Well, do you?

I'm not sure whether to add them or not - who knows what they'll write on my wall. I'm definitely giving off the impression that I'm seeing other people and going out, but I'm not sure I want various plates to know exactly what I'm up to.

I don't need the enemy conspiring against me!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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^^good thread, this is a dilma for me on myspace

I remember I was talking to a friend about possibley babysitting for a "prospect" of mine for a date not to long ago, what does this dumb broad do(my friend)? she goes on myspace leaves a comment about "did you find a babysitter for you're date?" luckily, I have it set up, to where I have to approve comments. If another plate saw this (and they always do) It woulda been lights out!!!
 
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i dont add any plates on facebook. i only use it for friends. i have no wall on my page, keep it set to private and take off the "view friends" thing. if they add you just ignore it and if they ask just say you dont like facebook and you havent been on in a long time.
 
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**** censoring yourself. Girls are constantly saying things on my page to sound like they know me - they leave flirty comments - and if I were less confident I might say 'Oh no now other women will see I have prospects.'

So what!? Women are insanely jealous creatures. You WANT them to see other women commenting you. Even if it's something like revealing you have a date or something.

If you are afraid of others to know anything about your social life in any capacity I think that takes the 'fun' out of the game... almost entirely. We have nothing to hide - women like us and we get alot of attention. Having alot of comments doesn't prove this... but we shouldn't hide it for christ's sake.

I can't count how many guys I've had this conversation with. They hide comments and don't approve them and all it does is make them look like major pussies to all the hot girls trying to communicate via their comment section.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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