"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Facebook - do you add plates as friends?

Rounder

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Well, do you?

I'm not sure whether to add them or not - who knows what they'll write on my wall. I'm definitely giving off the impression that I'm seeing other people and going out, but I'm not sure I want various plates to know exactly what I'm up to.

I don't need the enemy conspiring against me!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Solomon

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^^good thread, this is a dilma for me on myspace

I remember I was talking to a friend about possibley babysitting for a "prospect" of mine for a date not to long ago, what does this dumb broad do(my friend)? she goes on myspace leaves a comment about "did you find a babysitter for you're date?" luckily, I have it set up, to where I have to approve comments. If another plate saw this (and they always do) It woulda been lights out!!!
 

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i dont add any plates on facebook. i only use it for friends. i have no wall on my page, keep it set to private and take off the "view friends" thing. if they add you just ignore it and if they ask just say you dont like facebook and you havent been on in a long time.
 

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**** censoring yourself. Girls are constantly saying things on my page to sound like they know me - they leave flirty comments - and if I were less confident I might say 'Oh no now other women will see I have prospects.'

So what!? Women are insanely jealous creatures. You WANT them to see other women commenting you. Even if it's something like revealing you have a date or something.

If you are afraid of others to know anything about your social life in any capacity I think that takes the 'fun' out of the game... almost entirely. We have nothing to hide - women like us and we get alot of attention. Having alot of comments doesn't prove this... but we shouldn't hide it for christ's sake.

I can't count how many guys I've had this conversation with. They hide comments and don't approve them and all it does is make them look like major pussies to all the hot girls trying to communicate via their comment section.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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