"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Facebook - do you add plates as friends?

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Well, do you?

I'm not sure whether to add them or not - who knows what they'll write on my wall. I'm definitely giving off the impression that I'm seeing other people and going out, but I'm not sure I want various plates to know exactly what I'm up to.

I don't need the enemy conspiring against me!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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^^good thread, this is a dilma for me on myspace

I remember I was talking to a friend about possibley babysitting for a "prospect" of mine for a date not to long ago, what does this dumb broad do(my friend)? she goes on myspace leaves a comment about "did you find a babysitter for you're date?" luckily, I have it set up, to where I have to approve comments. If another plate saw this (and they always do) It woulda been lights out!!!
 
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i dont add any plates on facebook. i only use it for friends. i have no wall on my page, keep it set to private and take off the "view friends" thing. if they add you just ignore it and if they ask just say you dont like facebook and you havent been on in a long time.
 
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**** censoring yourself. Girls are constantly saying things on my page to sound like they know me - they leave flirty comments - and if I were less confident I might say 'Oh no now other women will see I have prospects.'

So what!? Women are insanely jealous creatures. You WANT them to see other women commenting you. Even if it's something like revealing you have a date or something.

If you are afraid of others to know anything about your social life in any capacity I think that takes the 'fun' out of the game... almost entirely. We have nothing to hide - women like us and we get alot of attention. Having alot of comments doesn't prove this... but we shouldn't hide it for christ's sake.

I can't count how many guys I've had this conversation with. They hide comments and don't approve them and all it does is make them look like major pussies to all the hot girls trying to communicate via their comment section.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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