dk1990S111
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Surprised nothing has been posted yet about it. Was only a matter of time. What’s everyone’s thoughts? Should be interesting
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Facebook dating
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- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Basically OLD, but even worse.
Unlike OLD sites, people aren't on Facebook for the sake of dating. So there's even less chance of successfully getting a date, not only do they have to be interested in dating at all but they have to be interested in you. On OLD sites (which is still sh!t) they at least have an interest in dating.
Going on Facebook is like trying to pick up random women on the streets, many will by default not be interested regardless of how good you are.
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I have supplied numerous posts about Facebook and dating.
Facebook is a very valuable tool to use when networking for ANY reason, dating is no different. It is super easy to connect to people through mutual friends on FB. It is also extremely easy to see if there are mutually liked hobbies and interests through their pics on FB.
Not to mention that you are probably linked to just about every chick and your social circles through mutual friends, etc.
If you are not pulling on FB, you are missing out. It is sooooooo easy.
FB>OLD
Facebook is a very valuable tool to use when networking for ANY reason, dating is no different. It is super easy to connect to people through mutual friends on FB. It is also extremely easy to see if there are mutually liked hobbies and interests through their pics on FB.
Not to mention that you are probably linked to just about every chick and your social circles through mutual friends, etc.
If you are not pulling on FB, you are missing out. It is sooooooo easy.
FB>OLD
dk1990S111
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Yesterday they announced Facebook Dating though lol new addition to the site.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Your missing the point.
For a woman to sleep with you, there has to be a certain level of attraction AND comfort (unless she is a total hoebag).
The connection and mutual interest is nothing more than a conversation piece to build that quickly and get the goods.
If I see a chick riding a horse in her profile pic, I have no intentions on riding horses with her, only her riding my horse. Its just a way to strike up a quick conversation that leads to me inviting her to meet me out for a drink.
With OLD you have 1-5 pics and a few words or one paragraph to figure out your approach. Its minimal.
With OLD there are some creepy @ss people on there. Its much harder to build a little comfort to meet up than with someone that you have 500 mutual friends with on FB.
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Yeah I think you are.
I have no interest in taking a chick out to the golf course for 18 holes and drinks. Yet its a quick emotional connection on HER part that she will feel comfortable with if I say "Lowest 18 hole score and the loser buys the first drink.....or are you not adventurous
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There is no intent on my end to do that, only set up the quick conversation which sets up the date.
Women look into the future. Men want what they want now.
Woman will visualize tons of fantasy situations, I visualize meeting for drinks and then pursuing sex if I am interested in her.
Not sure what else needs to be explained here lol.
I have no interest in taking a chick out to the golf course for 18 holes and drinks. Yet its a quick emotional connection on HER part that she will feel comfortable with if I say "Lowest 18 hole score and the loser buys the first drink.....or are you not adventurous
"There is no intent on my end to do that, only set up the quick conversation which sets up the date.
Women look into the future. Men want what they want now.
Woman will visualize tons of fantasy situations, I visualize meeting for drinks and then pursuing sex if I am interested in her.
Not sure what else needs to be explained here lol.
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Ok lol.
FYI- I spin plates. I have a rotation. I am not looking for a LTR.
So you again missed my point. And communicating with women is no different regardless of the intent of plates, LTR, fvck buddies, etc.
I do well, I will keep doing what I am doing. My past thread about exes was in no shape or form looking for advice (so apparently you struggle with reading as well). I handled it like a pro.
Cool story bro. Keep asking us guys questions that get it and we can keep spoon feeding you answers.
FYI- I spin plates. I have a rotation. I am not looking for a LTR.
So you again missed my point. And communicating with women is no different regardless of the intent of plates, LTR, fvck buddies, etc.
I do well, I will keep doing what I am doing. My past thread about exes was in no shape or form looking for advice (so apparently you struggle with reading as well). I handled it like a pro.
Cool story bro. Keep asking us guys questions that get it and we can keep spoon feeding you answers.
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Imagine an OLD where the woman can now publicly shame you in front of everyone you know, and have you thrown off the platform because she didn't like you, or worse. #BelieveHer #Metoo. This is them trying to find another reason for you to waste more time on there.
One of the major advantages of OLD is that you can keep your dating separate from your circle of friends. I no longer give my facebook out to anyone. I don't trust facebook at all.
Yeah... FVCK NO.
One of the major advantages of OLD is that you can keep your dating separate from your circle of friends. I no longer give my facebook out to anyone. I don't trust facebook at all.
Yeah... FVCK NO.