"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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daygameguy

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Try to have other options available so you don't act needy.
Try to have fun yourself and not be burdened by the process.
Be playful, not funny. Stop the haha, and get playful, which is best done in person. Facebook doesn't go that far.

I don't know man.. for me.. if i am gaming online.. the best way is to tease, tease tease tease, show authority over her world (by cold reading her) and make her qualify herself.

Stop trying to impress her. Make her impress you. and tell her things about her personality, keep teasing, and show that you like to have fun and she should be a part of that.. just take her out.
 

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TC if there is one thing I've learned, is that chatting online via facebook or msn with a girl you have a crush on will probably hurt your chances more than actually improve them. So the only people I chat with are maybe guy friends or a girlfriend that I've been with for a while.

Think about it, important factors like body language, expression and tonality (3 very important aspects of comedy and creating rapport) go out the window. Unless you are damn good at making people laugh through the use of text alone, don't bother with it, you are likely to hit a dead end and it will be very hard to recover especially if you see the girl again.

Take my advice on this one, stay far away from chatting online with girls you've just met. Unless you wanna set something up where you'd meet up, stay away.
 
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