"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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daygameguy

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Try to have other options available so you don't act needy.
Try to have fun yourself and not be burdened by the process.
Be playful, not funny. Stop the haha, and get playful, which is best done in person. Facebook doesn't go that far.

I don't know man.. for me.. if i am gaming online.. the best way is to tease, tease tease tease, show authority over her world (by cold reading her) and make her qualify herself.

Stop trying to impress her. Make her impress you. and tell her things about her personality, keep teasing, and show that you like to have fun and she should be a part of that.. just take her out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TC if there is one thing I've learned, is that chatting online via facebook or msn with a girl you have a crush on will probably hurt your chances more than actually improve them. So the only people I chat with are maybe guy friends or a girlfriend that I've been with for a while.

Think about it, important factors like body language, expression and tonality (3 very important aspects of comedy and creating rapport) go out the window. Unless you are damn good at making people laugh through the use of text alone, don't bother with it, you are likely to hit a dead end and it will be very hard to recover especially if you see the girl again.

Take my advice on this one, stay far away from chatting online with girls you've just met. Unless you wanna set something up where you'd meet up, stay away.
 
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