"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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That's terrible. Really. Amazing to me how some guys think being c & f means degrading a person.vato said:What are some funny birthday wishes you can write on girls walls to stand out from the crowd?
here is one I used on a girl
"It is said that a woman ages like wine, the older the better
But you age like milk, Happy Birthday!"
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Besides, if you have to think this hard about what to say, you probably shouldn't say it.cordoncordon said:
Because it won't sound natural.
...much like the OP's example.
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I'm just busting your balls, but really, I can't recall the last time I actually put THOUGHT into something like this. You see a girl you like....it's her birthday....say "Happy birthday. Drinks?"
Attempting to "stand out from the crowd" via Facebook already reeks of desperation.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I didn't think this was was that special, but it got like 12 "likes" from her friends. Eleven of which I have never met. I just said "I heard birthdays are good for you. The more you have, the longer you live. So.... congratulations on that..."
Apparently that was a big hit? I don't know... just normal sh!t I usually say...