Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Face it, Direct Game is not a good way to meet girls.

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Over 95% of the time you do a direct approach, you will be point blank rejected. So that being so, why on earth do people claim that direct is the way to go.

Seriously, aren't we just eluding oursleves into believing direct is the best method. With such high rejection rates, it surely is NOT.

Have some class, don't just be a h*rny idiot who goes around saying "you're cute I want to meet you". Geez guys!

In order to successfully seduce a girl, you have to dance the dance of seduction! You have to play by the rules. You should NEVER verbalise your intentions to a woman.

By verbalising your intentions, you just look like every other AFC who says 'you're beautiful'. You have to stand out from everyone else, cos if you don't, then why should that HB10 want to talk to you

I want to believe that direct game works, but in my experience all it gets is a rejection and makes the woman feel awkward or 'weirded out'. This then makes me feel like a f*cking idiot as I walk away from the girl knowing I've just got rejected and given her a weird reaction.

And don't give me any crap about 'project better body language' etc etc. I have my style, body language, eye contact and tone of voice all sorted....so I don't need improvement there. It's the METHOD that's not working....

So come on, stop lying. I know that you're ALL getting well over 95% point blank rejections from direct approaches, yet you're clinging onto the f*cking fantasty that one day that will change.

Guys - the definition of insanity is doing the same thing but expecting a different result!

Look, I really wish Direct Game worked, but with a rejection rate of over 95% that's a lot of work to get to a girl that IS interested.

So why on earth are do you advocate Direct Game then?

Personally my goal is to get laid....NOT to approach women and get point blank rejected 95% of the time!!!!! What is YOUR goal then???
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What the bloody hell are you talking about! How long have you been gaming direct?

And all this talk about 95% rejection rate is what your getting not me or anyother guy how has good direct game.

I'm from the UK before you mention that.
 

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the direct method is a great idea...seriously, let's just go straight for it cut the bs... but the thing is it is a little TOO explicit. you can't just be like do you feel you have what it takes??? no no no brother that is not seduction! a little more mystery (no pun intended)
 

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sexybeast said:
What the bloody hell are you talking about! How long have you been gaming direct?

And all this talk about 95% rejection rate is what your getting not me or anyother guy how has good direct game.

I'm from the UK before you mention that.
Ok then, explain EXACTLY how you do your direct approaches and EXACTLY how you get success....you're in the UK too so I want your advice.

For me, Direct Approaches rarely lead to a good reaction or a lay.

And I think you'll find that most guys doing direct get rejected most of the time.
 

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Also, I don't sarge bars much now - I do day game, it's much more exciting and there are better quality girls about.

So I want to know how to do a direct approach in the daytime so I can get an easy same day lay.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok then, explain EXACTLY how you do your direct approaches and EXACTLY how you get success..
I thought you might ask me this, but the bottom line is how I approach will not really work for you because we are all different so there's no point saying EXACTLY what I do. All you need to do is get a better understanding what direct is really all about (princibles, beliefs, attidudes) and take it from there. Your own personallity will mold HOW you game direct.

If you really want to get a good understanding on direct game get ModeOne "Let the women know what your really thinking". Amazon.

And I think you'll find that most guys doing direct get rejected most of the time.
If you do as I say above you will probably realise rejection is a win win situation plus what alot of guys think is rejection actually isnt.
 

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the only time i go direct is if i see 1 girl only

i will simply just ask directions to start off and then become personally interested....


when theres 2 women its different for me, its almost like i have 2 go for the ugly one first.....
 

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sexybeast said:
I thought you might ask me this, but the bottom line is how I approach will not really work for you because we are all different so there's no point saying EXACTLY what I do. All you need to do is get a better understanding what direct is really all about (princibles, beliefs, attidudes) and take it from there. Your own personallity will mold HOW you game direct.

If you really want to get a good understanding on direct game get ModeOne "Let the women know what your really thinking". Amazon.


If you do as I say above you will probably realise rejection is a win win situation plus what alot of guys think is rejection actually isnt.
Fair enough, so you're saying Direct works well in the UK then?

Are you doing Direct in the daytime, eg in shops/shopping centres/the street/bus/train etc and getting success?

I intend to buy 'Mode One' at some point, just wondered if that method would work well on UK girls. Most UK girls are pretty *****y and immature, NOT the sort I would like to date.

Where abouts in the UK are you, fancy an afternoon sarging together so I can see how direct is done by someone experienced?
 

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Fair enough, so you're saying Direct works well in the UK then?
It does for me and my natural mates.

Are you doing Direct in the daytime, eg in shops/shopping centres/the street/bus/train etc and getting success?
No not really. I do most of my gaming at night.

I intend to buy 'Mode One' at some point, just wondered if that method would work well on UK girls. Most UK girls are pretty *****y and immature, NOT the sort I would like to date.
I love sl*tty girls :) ModeOne is about attitude mate not really a method.

Where abouts in the UK are you, fancy an afternoon sarging together so I can see how direct is done by someone experienced?
London. Your more than welcome to join me on a night out. I dont' really do much day stuff.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Direct Game works best if you are handsome. If you are short, fat, and ugly you either have to be super charming or have something else going for ya cause its an uphill battle.
 

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excuse my ignorance, i am not sure i am familiar with 'direct game' after all can someone point me in the right direction?

thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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To clarify I believe Guitar_Whizz is not questioning being bold and daring with women, it's the specific 'direct game' method of approaching and saying something ultra-direct like 'Hi I think you look great and wanted to talk to you.'

I would like to hear from anyone who regularly gets women into bed by starting their interactions with such a dull, charmless opener. I can't imagine this approach working for me, or on any women I know.
 

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I think there is some confusions as to what direct game is or should I say is not...Whenever you approach a girl and ask a question that you could have asked any girl or anybody and is sorta hiding your intentions it is not direct game.

However in the past ive opened mix sets of girl with the opener " Hi, so what are you two doing to get all this attention?" (worked well and amoged other guys good)
This wood in my opnion be direct game...even though I didn't say I liked them it's obvious what I am there for.
I do know someone who uses the direct game you guys talk about with staggering results...he recomended me to RAZORJACK - SPIRIT FINGERS - WOODHAVEN - DIMITRI.

Although a high % of sets fail at the get-go I believe you have a much better chance to close.
 

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G_Wizz, what's the deal with all your posts about things that don't work? :confused:
 

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Direct game is HORRIBLE.

Do not use it.

It will always result in the girl feeling creeped out. Always.

Never use it, losers use it and girls know this.
 

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Bvbidd, I think you will find direct behavour will get a girls pvssy wet not creep her out.

Also, I think you will find direct behavour is geared for real men not losers with no backbone.

But whatever, you all keep believing what you want, I know for a FACT direct game is by far the best way to get pvssy, guys just dont understand what its all about which in all honestly I cant blame them for because alot guys post about direct but havnt got a clue.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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