"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the new school year started 3 weeks ago and from the get go I started talking to this hot chick who I hadnt spoken or know very well before.

Everything was going great and after 1 week she was in my hands, I was going to get her number anyday now.

One afternoon, I was sitting next to her again and my friends in the back row were trying to embarass me by telling that girl I like her, wanna f her, etc.

Then one guy, I dont really like, he gets tonnes of girls. He got jealous and starting saying **** to her that shes too good for me, i'm ugly, whatever.

I wanted to smash him!

Its been around 3 days since then and now me and that girl are uncomfortable around each other. I'm in quite a few classes with her so i've tried to sit next to her and close to her etc, but the connection isnt there and I feel like ****.

Only 1 week ago she was laughing at all my jokes, good kino, etc and now nothing.

Is there anything I can do to get her back if you know what I mean?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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be a man and walk up to this guy and say

'whats your problem?'
he may go wot
then you say 'you know what. why did you
talk sh1t about me to that girl?'

then he may be smart or wotever then u kick his ass so in the girls eyes you look great. <- only do this if you know you can beat him.

as for this 'connection' its all in your mind. act like the 'sh1t' doesnt bother you because it shouldn't he's a stupid afc... if it does bother you what this stupid afc has said to the girl then it will come across to her.. act like it never happened. If she brings it up, just say 'it doesnt bother me, he should learn to grow up.'

edit: this is how i would approach this situation. I'm not too sure on beating his ass but people shouldn't diss for no reason and he needs to be taught a lesson.
 

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Your first reaction should be to not care and act NORMALLY with the girl..Act like what that guy says doesn't matter to you at all.Girls usually believe the guy that they're with rather than guys that they're not with.

And then,if the guy says something to the girl again,then you walk up to him and ask what's his problem and all that.Don't kick his ass yet.The guy is gonna get embarassed because he knows what he's doing is not right,and he'll give some sh*t to you.Ask him why he did it,and make sure the girl is around hearing what's going on.He has no answer as to why he talked crap.Then the girl will know that all of that was a lie and it would be over then.

A brawl should be your last resort,because then the girl will think you're fighting for her,and there you go,she'll treat you like her dog.
 

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Originally posted by adit
Your first reaction should be to not care and act NORMALLY with the girl..Act like what that guy says doesn't matter to you at all.Girls usually believe the guy that they're with rather than guys that they're not with.

And then,if the guy says something to the girl again,then you walk up to him and ask what's his problem and all that.Don't kick his ass yet.The guy is gonna get embarassed because he knows what he's doing is not right,and he'll give some sh*t to you.Ask him why he did it,and make sure the girl is around hearing what's going on.He has no answer as to why he talked crap.Then the girl will know that all of that was a lie and it would be over then.

A brawl should be your last resort,because then the girl will think you're fighting for her,and there you go,she'll treat you like her dog.
I agree with this post more so than the first post.

Just don't care too much. Continue to be "yourself."
 

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thanks for the suggestions, i'll update the situation during the week
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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