Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Levrone

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It's sooo ****ed up this.
I have a female friend, but the last month we're very close, especially on the internet with each other.
She act's like we have someting, when I say that I saw a hot chick today, she acts really jeallous and stuff.
She also sends me SMS messages on the phone alot.

But now.. I thought it was time to take some action, because I was starting to like her more and more.

So we started to talk about movies and stuff.. and I said "hey we can watch that movie together".. she agreed. But when... where? First I said at her house. She said her family was home and they we're gonna ask me some annoying questions... but I said I don't care... let them come hehe :p

She didn't agree and I said then come over here we can watch the movie at my place.. finally she agreed.
She asked where I lived exactly (she's never been here tough), so I pointed out the directions.

And then... finally BAM.. she said "O **** I have a soccer game to watch"... WHAT DA FOCK... like she didn't know that before.

And if you think this is the first time... NO it's the second time she does something like this.. I have mixed feelings right now.. dissapointed and rejected.

I don't know... a friend of mine says maybe she's shy or something.. and indeed everytime she see's me she acts really shy and stuff never dares to watch me in the eye..

But what the f*ck man why is she first planning all the stuff and at the last final moment blowing it off?

This girl is really driving me nuts I don't know what to do with it. Yeah you guys probably would say to get rid of her but that's not so easy because I care about her in a friendly way and now a little bit in that other way.. ;)

Please gimme some good advice what to do..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Vulpine

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Read the DJ bible and "Weapons of Mass Seduction" by Senor Fingers. If you've read it, read it again.

You are letting her control you emotions.

You need to be too busy for HER.

She's not the prize, you are.
 

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Originally posted by Vulpine
Read the DJ bible and "Weapons of Mass Seduction" by Senor Fingers. If you've read it, read it again.

You are letting her control you emotions.

You need to be too busy for HER.

She's not the prize, you are.
Yeah but that's all theoretic stuff... I'm the prize... euhm ok but in what way should I deal with it now?
 

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See her less, talk to her less, make her miss you.

Then try again.

She's blowing you off because you are just a friend now.

Kino her, then bust a move.

Whatever you do, stop trying so hard. You'll push her further away.
 

Levrone

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Originally posted by Vulpine
See her less, talk to her less, make her miss you.

Then try again.

She's blowing you off because you are just a friend now.

Kino her, then bust a move.

Whatever you do, stop trying so hard. You'll push her further away.
Yeah maybe your right...

I even feel like don't talk to her anymore right now...

But it's so double
She acts like we have something, says things like do you miss me? And like I said when I'm talking about other girls she acts really jalouse.
And on the other hand when it's really comming to something she blows me off..

Yeah I know you guys think I'm a ***** because a girl let's control my feelings, but it's so hard because it's just nice talking to here, like any friend.. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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