Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Levrone

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It's sooo ****ed up this.
I have a female friend, but the last month we're very close, especially on the internet with each other.
She act's like we have someting, when I say that I saw a hot chick today, she acts really jeallous and stuff.
She also sends me SMS messages on the phone alot.

But now.. I thought it was time to take some action, because I was starting to like her more and more.

So we started to talk about movies and stuff.. and I said "hey we can watch that movie together".. she agreed. But when... where? First I said at her house. She said her family was home and they we're gonna ask me some annoying questions... but I said I don't care... let them come hehe :p

She didn't agree and I said then come over here we can watch the movie at my place.. finally she agreed.
She asked where I lived exactly (she's never been here tough), so I pointed out the directions.

And then... finally BAM.. she said "O **** I have a soccer game to watch"... WHAT DA FOCK... like she didn't know that before.

And if you think this is the first time... NO it's the second time she does something like this.. I have mixed feelings right now.. dissapointed and rejected.

I don't know... a friend of mine says maybe she's shy or something.. and indeed everytime she see's me she acts really shy and stuff never dares to watch me in the eye..

But what the f*ck man why is she first planning all the stuff and at the last final moment blowing it off?

This girl is really driving me nuts I don't know what to do with it. Yeah you guys probably would say to get rid of her but that's not so easy because I care about her in a friendly way and now a little bit in that other way.. ;)

Please gimme some good advice what to do..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vulpine

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Read the DJ bible and "Weapons of Mass Seduction" by Senor Fingers. If you've read it, read it again.

You are letting her control you emotions.

You need to be too busy for HER.

She's not the prize, you are.
 

Levrone

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Originally posted by Vulpine
Read the DJ bible and "Weapons of Mass Seduction" by Senor Fingers. If you've read it, read it again.

You are letting her control you emotions.

You need to be too busy for HER.

She's not the prize, you are.
Yeah but that's all theoretic stuff... I'm the prize... euhm ok but in what way should I deal with it now?
 

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See her less, talk to her less, make her miss you.

Then try again.

She's blowing you off because you are just a friend now.

Kino her, then bust a move.

Whatever you do, stop trying so hard. You'll push her further away.
 

Levrone

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Originally posted by Vulpine
See her less, talk to her less, make her miss you.

Then try again.

She's blowing you off because you are just a friend now.

Kino her, then bust a move.

Whatever you do, stop trying so hard. You'll push her further away.
Yeah maybe your right...

I even feel like don't talk to her anymore right now...

But it's so double
She acts like we have something, says things like do you miss me? And like I said when I'm talking about other girls she acts really jalouse.
And on the other hand when it's really comming to something she blows me off..

Yeah I know you guys think I'm a ***** because a girl let's control my feelings, but it's so hard because it's just nice talking to here, like any friend.. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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