"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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F*CK you

Capi Crimini

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Wanna know whats really fun. when your alone with a girl and your not talking(ur walking somewhere or something) just say

F*ck You " in a normal tone of voice.

then after she asks you what you said or whatever act totally clueless.

It's not really DJing but its fun.

if your looking to DJ there are lines like

Talking in a normal convo....

"Do you Swallow?"

HER:"What?"

"I said Do you Follow me?"

I dunno I use to know a lot of them. Better one's. I think theres some in the DJ bible.

OR

"Do you like Sex?"

"What?"

"Do you like Tex. Like Texans... cause I know this guy who blah blah blah...."

be creative. anyway Just saying F you. is pretty fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MusicMan

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neghit at its best i guess :rolleyes:
 

Jerky Boi

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I've never actually done that before unless I was trying to act stupid. What kinda of responses do you get?
 

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Lol thats some subliminal sounding sh1t even though you are saying it outright it tricks her into thinking you may have said it but if you play it off well she will decide you didnt say it but the thought will still be in her mind.
 

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I'm a really good lier.

I like playing wit peoples minds. SO I always pull **** like this off perfectly.

You should practice if you suck at lying with things that sound a like. But not a **** you thing.

I get good responses. but the girls i try it on are open to the idea at least. Meaning there intrested. It would probably turn off a borderline case cause she'd assume you were saying it.

Responses are good though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Capi Crimini

Talking in a normal convo....

"Do you Swallow?"

HER:"What?"

"I said Do you Follow me?"
I like!!
 

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... that sounds really dumb.

Why not just talk to them? Subliminal messages are only good when you don't have the language skills for anything else.
 

Best friends? NAY

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This wasn't for Sublieminal messages, this seams like it was just for fun.


Sounds like **** I do.
 

Capi Crimini

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I don't believe in Subliminal messages. It's just a way to play around. It's a game.
 

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Heh, that does sound like fun. I'll have to give that a try so girls won't know what to expect out of my mouth :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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