"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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f*ck this sh*t

That_Guy49

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I've posted so many stupid posts that I've motivated myself to go out and approach a bunch of chicks..Tomorrow at school I will stop thinking about my plans to get f*cked up on a lot of drugs and approach 10 girls I've been curious about and then update you guys..

I will guarantee that I'll approach about 15 to 20 girls but I might end up putting one in a headlock, so wish me luck..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lebRambo

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er....i get everything except that headlock thing. is that supposed to be an obscure sexual reference? cause I don't get it...:confused:
 

chancer

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you don't need drugs. Do it sober, so that it is the real you. From then on you have the confidence that you can do it without drugs. Treat the nerves in your body as a thrill.

Say you get on a roller coaster... Your heart begins pumping before the ride begins. You're nervous, but excited for the thrill. It slowly click click click clicks till you get to the top. Your heart starts racing, and there's no turning back now. OMG, i'm still alive! that's **** was awesome!

Treat your approaches the same way. While you're walking think of those nerves... and think about the thrill. U're about to talk to a bad ass girl. Now there you are standing infront of her while she expects you to say someting. Say hi and and don't walk away like a pvssy.

Being nervous/excited/thrilled is what makes the whole dating thing FUN!
 
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