"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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f*ck this sh*t

That_Guy49

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I've posted so many stupid posts that I've motivated myself to go out and approach a bunch of chicks..Tomorrow at school I will stop thinking about my plans to get f*cked up on a lot of drugs and approach 10 girls I've been curious about and then update you guys..

I will guarantee that I'll approach about 15 to 20 girls but I might end up putting one in a headlock, so wish me luck..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lebRambo

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er....i get everything except that headlock thing. is that supposed to be an obscure sexual reference? cause I don't get it...:confused:
 

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you don't need drugs. Do it sober, so that it is the real you. From then on you have the confidence that you can do it without drugs. Treat the nerves in your body as a thrill.

Say you get on a roller coaster... Your heart begins pumping before the ride begins. You're nervous, but excited for the thrill. It slowly click click click clicks till you get to the top. Your heart starts racing, and there's no turning back now. OMG, i'm still alive! that's **** was awesome!

Treat your approaches the same way. While you're walking think of those nerves... and think about the thrill. U're about to talk to a bad ass girl. Now there you are standing infront of her while she expects you to say someting. Say hi and and don't walk away like a pvssy.

Being nervous/excited/thrilled is what makes the whole dating thing FUN!
 
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