"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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F*CK I think I got Oneitis....

Triple T

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Forgive me fellow DJs for I have sinned,
I am becoming to get oneitis for my gf.


-I keep sitting by my phone, waiting for her to reply to my texts, and when she does I jump at my phone like a madman.
-I get all sad and miserable when she doesn't talk to me over msn when I sign on. (Most of the time, I wait for her to initiate contact)
-I keep thinking she is talking with some other guy and not me! :cry:
-I can't STOP THINKING about HER! <---its killing me fellas

Frick, I know I'm probably over reacting, but w/e, its good to get it out.
No wonder girls have journals... :rolleyes:


1. First thing I probally gotta do is get myself more busy. :cool: This will help me forget about her.
Okay, ideas?
My parents are gone for like 3 weeks so I don't have reliable transportation right now to anywhere. I workout, work and thats about it. I just got my phone so I'm still getting all my friend's numbers, I'll call them to hangout or something once I do get their digits.

2. Help me get rid of all these negative thoughts! Its killing my mood, and my usual happy, cheerful, fun self.

Anything else?

Help me get OUT!

I'll probably feel better later, but still...I'm getting obsessed by this girl.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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true romance

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when ever you have these reactions. Slap your face, you will associate pain whenever you have a thougth of her so it will stop you behave like AFC.

You need to have a life, join team sport, swimming, tennis, dance..etc
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I keep sitting by my phone, waiting for her to reply to my texts, and when she does I jump at my phone like a madman.
-I get all sad and miserable when she doesn't talk to me over msn when I sign on. (Most of the time, I wait for her to initiate contact)
-I keep thinking she is talking with some other guy and not me!
-I can't STOP THINKING about HER! <---its killing me fellas
 

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Wait do you friends have cars? I think a little party/ get together could be just what you need. Other than that just find something, anything (well maybe not crystal meth), else.
 

decades

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I heard somebody had oneitis so bad that they ripped the phone off the wall and threw it in the garbage.
 

Triple T

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Yea man I'm planned for a party this friday and saturday
And yea I'm going shopping with a couple of female friends this weekend as well.

that should keep me busy :cool:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SinJester

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Just stop thinking, when you find yourself having those thoughts occupy yourself with something, even if it's simple.

Your a step above most people, at least the chick you have onitus for is your girlfriend =p
 

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I know exactly how you feel. The thing you gotta realize that when you think about her that much, you will make yourself miserable. I remember that I would think all day about her and what she was doing and it led to a mild form of OCD that made me check my phone every 30 seconds, check if she was on myspace, and such. What I realized was she was sucking MY life away. Ya she may be the greatest person in the world, but in my reality I'm always the number one. I think of myself first.

Some things you can do since you're bored out of your mind is...Go running and workout like you said you were doing. Clean your house. Yes I find that tedious work gets my mind off everything. Take up a hobby. Read a book. Anything that takes your mind off of her.

Ya. The symptoms you're having are symptoms of love sickness. Be careful. This can lead to depression. If you start feeling depressed, get some help.
 

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just made a couple calls and texts, and i have tons of events planned for the weekend now. :D

She's going to be missing me texting her every second for sure :up:
it'll make her wonder whats going on and I'll be the prizee :yes:


I'll post up what she does next for the oneitis guys. So they can see what happens as a result of keeping yourself busy, and keeping yourself...number one :cool:

:rockon: sarge on
 

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Get a job and work ALOT, it works great.
Im in the process of recovering from my oneitis
 
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