"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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f*ck close?

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ShyRyder

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I got a couple girls interested in me and I’m unsure about my ability to close.
First off I’m poor, like really poor right now, so action dates and 5 star meals isn’t high on the list.

Right now my two main date ideas are coffee shops and walks.

First off is it better/required(more importantly) to kiss during the date before you can ask if they wanna come back to your place.

If you want to go back to her place how would you word it?
“what are you up too right now?” “wanna go to your place and talk some more”

Is it considered a big deal and rude to ask some girl that you know in your class to come back to your place?

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geneticperfection

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I've been on both sides of the financial spectrum, and yeah, having more money gives you a buttload more options. However, even if you're in a financial hole, believe me you can get enjoyable closes with coffee and walks.

It does help however, if you want a 'F*C^ close', to have something fun to do in a secluded area (your room being such an example). It could be drinks; a movie; hell, a frigging TV show even. Maybe you have a cool poster or album or damned near anything.

Really, lack of finances reduces your options a bit, but its overall effect on your ability is not great unless you allow it to become an excuse. So think about what you could have that might be an appealing enough reason to invite a girl back, and from then on, its an issue of your skills...

To indirectly answer your second question, you might not even need a 'reason' if you can make out with the girl during the walk or whatever to an extent where shes so turned on that she suggests somewhere more private, or you can just be direct and ask if she'd like a more intimate venue. If you want to be direct, you probably will want to have had some kissing going on though.
 
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aight what if the coffee date ends with no kissing. Upon walking out of the coffee shop i'd say "lets go too your place and talk some more". Would that be out of line or exceptable?
 
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