"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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f*ck close?

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ShyRyder

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I got a couple girls interested in me and I’m unsure about my ability to close.
First off I’m poor, like really poor right now, so action dates and 5 star meals isn’t high on the list.

Right now my two main date ideas are coffee shops and walks.

First off is it better/required(more importantly) to kiss during the date before you can ask if they wanna come back to your place.

If you want to go back to her place how would you word it?
“what are you up too right now?” “wanna go to your place and talk some more”

Is it considered a big deal and rude to ask some girl that you know in your class to come back to your place?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been on both sides of the financial spectrum, and yeah, having more money gives you a buttload more options. However, even if you're in a financial hole, believe me you can get enjoyable closes with coffee and walks.

It does help however, if you want a 'F*C^ close', to have something fun to do in a secluded area (your room being such an example). It could be drinks; a movie; hell, a frigging TV show even. Maybe you have a cool poster or album or damned near anything.

Really, lack of finances reduces your options a bit, but its overall effect on your ability is not great unless you allow it to become an excuse. So think about what you could have that might be an appealing enough reason to invite a girl back, and from then on, its an issue of your skills...

To indirectly answer your second question, you might not even need a 'reason' if you can make out with the girl during the walk or whatever to an extent where shes so turned on that she suggests somewhere more private, or you can just be direct and ask if she'd like a more intimate venue. If you want to be direct, you probably will want to have had some kissing going on though.
 
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aight what if the coffee date ends with no kissing. Upon walking out of the coffee shop i'd say "lets go too your place and talk some more". Would that be out of line or exceptable?
 
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