"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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F-buddy advice

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How would you guys approach an F-buddy situation?

Basically, my question is this: in your experience, how do women who are into casual sex handle a conversation about becoming f-buddies? Or is it much easier to sleep with them first and then sort the pieces out later?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In my experience it just sort of happens. Before you sleep with her forthe first time make it CLEAR you do not want a girlfriend.
 
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i had a **** buddy (now girlfriend..)

i picked her up one night.
took her to movies another night.
saw her at a club another night.
she came to a mates house after that and was talking girlfirend broyfriend, i said nah i can't too busy with life blah blah blah but i really liked her and couldn't fit a girlfriend in. she liked me enough to say that was ok, we'll just sleep together..
but now, i like her, and am going out with her. i'm happy with the way it worked itself out.
 
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Re: Who you callin' '*****'?

naughty post:cool:
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: Re: Who you callin' '*****'?

Originally posted by obijuan
What the f*** are you talking sh*t for f*ggot? I don't even listen to R&B you cow-f*cking red-neck h*m*!!!

----BTW is "40 quid" what your mamma charges tricks when she walks the streets of London at night q***r?
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Wow . . . sensitive much?

I was referring to a post that was deleted by the mods. It was done by a guy who called himself "Rick James." In fact, if the mods had left the post, you would see that it was a tongue-in-cheek comment. My bad for not hitting the quote button.

Take some valium and RELAX. Share the love, man.
 
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Re: Re: Re: Who you callin' '*****'?

Originally posted by 40quid
Wow . . . sensitive much?

I was referring to a post that was deleted by the mods. It was done by a guy who called himself "Rick James." In fact, if the mods had left the post, you would see that it was a tongue-in-cheek comment. My bad for not hitting the quote button.

Take some valium and RELAX. Share the love, man.
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Okay sorry. :eek: The way it looked I regretted even responding to your question.
 
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It has never been required for me to establish a verbal agreement at any time.
For me it has always been that women who partake in these situations behave in a way that did not require me to set any records straight to begin with. I felt no pressures what so ever.

The time for the talk has always come only when someone starts to "feel differently" about the situation. If you have to make yourself clear, there is a probability that something else is going on.
 
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Very, very, true. However, if it's about what you want then you have to make yourself clear.
 
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Originally posted by obijuan
Very, very, true. However, if it's about what you want then you have to make yourself clear.
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Perhaps, but I've never had a straight up FB that didn't want the same thing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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