"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Eyeballing women. Bad? Good?

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because I just do it...I can't freaking help myself, and "use your peripherals" is a very foreign concept to me.

When does eyeballing become creepy leering?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MascaraSnake said:
because I just do it...I can't freaking help myself, and "use your peripherals" is a very foreign concept to me.

When does eyeballing become creepy leering?
When your beta and she suspects you can't back up you eye fvcking her.

Peripherals are for chicks. A man likes what he sees he looks. I made it a point years ago to let HB's know I like what I see, fvck what anyone else thinks. Bonus points if you do it while your gf is next to you.
 

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MascaraSnake said:
because I just do it...I can't freaking help myself, and "use your peripherals" is a very foreign concept to me.

When does eyeballing become creepy leering?
this depends on the context. for instance, if you're in a club and you start eyeballing you'll be like everyother drooling dude. if you use your peripherals and avoid giving the club slvts direct attention, they'll ask themselves why you aren't looking and you will arouse their interest.

if you're walking down the street and see a female, go ahead and eyeball then follow up with an approach.
 
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