"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eyeballing women. Bad? Good?

MascaraSnake

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because I just do it...I can't freaking help myself, and "use your peripherals" is a very foreign concept to me.

When does eyeballing become creepy leering?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MascaraSnake said:
because I just do it...I can't freaking help myself, and "use your peripherals" is a very foreign concept to me.

When does eyeballing become creepy leering?
When your beta and she suspects you can't back up you eye fvcking her.

Peripherals are for chicks. A man likes what he sees he looks. I made it a point years ago to let HB's know I like what I see, fvck what anyone else thinks. Bonus points if you do it while your gf is next to you.
 

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MascaraSnake said:
because I just do it...I can't freaking help myself, and "use your peripherals" is a very foreign concept to me.

When does eyeballing become creepy leering?
this depends on the context. for instance, if you're in a club and you start eyeballing you'll be like everyother drooling dude. if you use your peripherals and avoid giving the club slvts direct attention, they'll ask themselves why you aren't looking and you will arouse their interest.

if you're walking down the street and see a female, go ahead and eyeball then follow up with an approach.
 
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