"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Eye Glasses Prescription

sanyo7878

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I went to the eye doctor the other day because i've noticed my distance vision is a little blurred. My prescription is -.25 spherical for both eyes. The doc said I could really get by without glasses because the prescription is so weak. Is anyone familiar with this kind of stuff. Should I buy some glasses?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MVP

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-.25 is nothing. You really don't need glasses till it reaches about -1, unless you just want to wear glasses for fun.
 

BacardiGuy

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My contacts are -10.0, my glasses are weaker bc I don't wear them often as they give me headaches, but they're like -8.0 I think.

Your vision is perfect as far as I'm concerned.
 

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BacardiGuy said:
My contacts are -10.0, my glasses are weaker bc I don't wear them often as they give me headaches, but they're like -8.0 I think.

Your vision is perfect as far as I'm concerned.
You are f**** blind!!! How sweet is that! I bet you get to park in the handicap spaces.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Definately don't waste the money.

At -.75 you might want to consider getting glasses for driving.

Adjusting to glasses is a major headache if you haven't worn them in the past. So for now just tough it out, at -.25 it shouldn't be too hard.


-E.Nigma
 

Bigsnake

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BacardiGuy said:
My contacts are -10.0, my glasses are weaker bc I don't wear them often as they give me headaches, but they're like -8.0 I think.

Your vision is perfect as far as I'm concerned.
Not sure what mine are but they are bad as well. One eye will only correct to 20/25 or is it 25/20? idk, whichever is worse but it's not 20/20. I wear contacts whenever I'm out though.
 
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