"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eye fvcking the single mom

051AV

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Ran into the single mom I've talked about, so I had to chat her up, panties must have been soaked right through after I got done with her. The reaction I get from her its just plain fun. Her face flushes from red to white, she gets all giggly, its 100% obvious she has attraction for me. No I wouldn't ever get involved with her, its just not worth it, being in a relationship with a single mom would never be a healthy relationship.

Why aren't there any attractive ones not packing some kind of baggage ie single mom, some kind of mental illness etc. I live in a small town so pumping and dumping isn't an option word gets around quick. Talking with a buddy the other day he's given up on trying to find a woman were we live too much damaged goods walking around. There's not shortage of women just a big shortage of dateable women.

Women ***** that they can't find a good man I think they should look at themselves, lots of decent men around who don't want to get involved with problem child women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Absolutely nothing wrong with getting involved with her, so long as it's nothing serious. ONS is good, FBs is good, fcking several times and dumping is good. You don't even have to think about it, just dive in, and in couple of dates she will herself steer it verbally or by her actions into serious route, to which you just straight up tell her you don't want anything serious, or just stop talking and seeing her.
 

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Ran into the single mom I've talked about, so I had to chat her up, panties must have been soaked right through after I got done with her. The reaction I get from her its just plain fun. Her face flushes from red to white, she gets all giggly, its 100% obvious she has attraction for me. No I wouldn't ever get involved with her, its just not worth it, being in a relationship with a single mom would never be a healthy relationship.

Why aren't there any attractive ones not packing some kind of baggage ie single mom, some kind of mental illness etc. I live in a small town so pumping and dumping isn't an option word gets around quick. Talking with a buddy the other day he's given up on trying to find a woman were we live too much damaged goods walking around. There's not shortage of women just a big shortage of dateable women.

Women ***** that they can't find a good man I think they should look at themselves, lots of decent men around who don't want to get involved with problem child women.
Nothing wrong with using some of her lubrication for penial moisturizer. Though, for anal, you must supply the lube though...
 

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Single moms are pretty easy. Especially for a guy in late 20's early 30's

So I wouldnt get philosophical over it. Just bang
 

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Her life revolves around her two little ones they definitely are priority in her life. Is she fvckable you bet she's attractive her kids don't have abnormally large heads so she wouldn't be too stretched out lol. She wouldn't take well to being a pump and dump the guy she was married to since nearly high school she's 30 years old. As I've said before the day I met her she's had a thing for me that was 3 years ago.

I'm just going to keep giving her female blue balls a guy doesn't stick his **** into crazy, she didn't grow up with her biological father she doesn't hate her mother or father but...... She gets so shy and nervous with me figitity, blushing etc makes me laugh.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Her life revolves around her two little ones they definitely are priority in her life. Is she fvckable you bet she's attractive her kids don't have abnormally large heads so she wouldn't be too stretched out lol. She wouldn't take well to being a pump and dump the guy she was married to since nearly high school she's 30 years old. As I've said before the day I met her she's had a thing for me that was 3 years ago.

I'm just going to keep giving her female blue balls a guy doesn't stick his **** into crazy, she didn't grow up with her biological father she doesn't hate her mother or father but...... She gets so shy and nervous with me figitity, blushing etc makes me laugh.
Look like you're head deep into her vagina damn boy,,,,,,,,,


 

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It's not an ideal situation. She'll be talking about her kids all the time. And I do mean "all the time." As in, "I just dropped off my kids" or "I have to get back to my kids" or "my kids are at..". It's going to be a constant emotional drain and a distraction. It'll be impossible not to feel like a cuck.

Plus, you'll always be thinking about how good she looked before she had her kids. You're going to have to be a forgiving soul to look past her 30 something wrinkles and stretch marks and extra weight.

It's kinda like taking the bus or sharing an uber with 4 other strangers. It's far from ideal, inconvenient, and I guarantee it will be a relief when you finally get out. But it's better than walking (not getting laid at all).
 
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Like Medina said single moms are easy but they're also more willing to do stuff. You kinda have to exploit the fact that she comes with baggage and you don't. I'm currently dating a single mom right now and she's doing everything from putting out on demand, BJs after a hard days work and paying for things.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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