"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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adpreston1988

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Can you tell a lot about whether or not a girl likes you by the way she looks at you in the hallways?? Some girls definitely seem to smile and stuff when they look at me and I was wondering what this means. Any tips on how to tell what she thinks of you??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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whats it mean when girls pick their nose when theyre next to me
 

Ace of Flames

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ok, within the 3 seconds that you're looking at each other and passing by, this is her thoughts:

"oh hey, there's that guy again. smile! maybe he'll ask me out today? i hope so, im tried of just smiling at him everyday, he needs to grow some balls and get over here. wait, is he about to do it? alright, finally!! wait...... crap, he was talkin to a friend. sigh.... there he goes, another day, still no guy. this sucks.... pout."
 

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Originally posted by adpreston1988
Can you tell a lot about whether or not a girl likes you by the way she looks at you in the hallways?? Some girls definitely seem to smile and stuff when they look at me and I was wondering what this means. Any tips on how to tell what she thinks of you??
Stop trying to find 'clues' if a girl likes you or not. Some girls might be looking at you in a friendly manner, others will be given you the 'come get it' look. Either way, you won't know for sure until you APPROACH her...
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DedOne88

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The best thing to do is talking to her and flirting with her. There's nothing wrong with a little flirting.
 
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