"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can you tell a lot about whether or not a girl likes you by the way she looks at you in the hallways?? Some girls definitely seem to smile and stuff when they look at me and I was wondering what this means. Any tips on how to tell what she thinks of you??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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whats it mean when girls pick their nose when theyre next to me
 
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ok, within the 3 seconds that you're looking at each other and passing by, this is her thoughts:

"oh hey, there's that guy again. smile! maybe he'll ask me out today? i hope so, im tried of just smiling at him everyday, he needs to grow some balls and get over here. wait, is he about to do it? alright, finally!! wait...... crap, he was talkin to a friend. sigh.... there he goes, another day, still no guy. this sucks.... pout."
 
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Originally posted by adpreston1988
Can you tell a lot about whether or not a girl likes you by the way she looks at you in the hallways?? Some girls definitely seem to smile and stuff when they look at me and I was wondering what this means. Any tips on how to tell what she thinks of you??
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Stop trying to find 'clues' if a girl likes you or not. Some girls might be looking at you in a friendly manner, others will be given you the 'come get it' look. Either way, you won't know for sure until you APPROACH her...
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The best thing to do is talking to her and flirting with her. There's nothing wrong with a little flirting.
 
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