Eye contact...

[fbplayer06]

Hi all,

I talk to this girl often (we're friends), and I'm curious if she's starting to become attracted to me. I'm trying to pay attention to her body language, namely her eyes. Whenever we talk, she almost never loses eye contact with me. Although this is a sign that she probably likes me, how do I know that she just isn't that way with everyone (keeps good eye contact no matter who she's talking to)?? I'd appreciate any advice.




-fbplayer06

 

[Austizzle]

Just ask the girl if she would like to do something sometime...problem solved!
A-tizzle

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

yup, i'd say shes attracted to you

it never ever ever hurts to ask her on a date, or even just ask for her phone number. see from there. But honestly, i know whenever i liked a guy i couldnt keep my eyes off of him.

 

[M2k961]

Woah back it up..

I talk to this girl often (we're friends), and I'm curious if she's starting to become attracted to me.

If you're in the friend zone, and maintain what you did to get into it, you're NEVER COMING OUT, BUDDY. You probably lost your chance.

I say ganji her for awhile and come back to test the waters.

Never ever become frickin' FRIENDS with someone you want to date for christ's sake!

 

[Luscious]

Ask her what she's doing after school that day, or tomorrow night, or whatever. When she says that she's not doing anything, (or more likely being a high school girl she'll make up something she's doing to appear popular), even if she says she's doing something, you tell her that you guys should hang out at _____ then.

Not hard at all. If she says no, and you ask again some other time, and she says no again, she's not interested.

Just assume she's interested until you're EXPLICITLY shown otherwise - most guys here have pretty low self-confidence and take any little bad sign to be the end of the world.

Put another way...
Why do you talk to her? Because you're interested in her.
Now, why would she be talking to you? Because you know how to cook some mean chocolate chip cookies? - no, she's talking to you because she's interested, too.

 

[fbplayer06]

Hmmm...

I have been to a couple movies with her, but even then, it was assumed that we were just friends. I'm just curious (recently) if there's anything more. Now that I'm starting to read the DJ bible (and these great posts on the forums), I think I will have a chance to get out of the "friends zone" with her.

BTW...she plays sports year-round ('cept next year in fall, but I play football then), so it's rather difficult to make plans with her if it's not during a weekend or summer...

Thanks for your time/input, I really appreciate it!

 

[Weeuweed]

does she treat every1 the same???
with the 'intense' eye contact??
or does she treat u diff than other guys??

 

[DJ Alejandro]

she likes you...... and maybe other guys. hehe

 

[DJ Alejandro]

she likes you...... and maybe other guys. hehe
mabe she likes a good challenge.

 

[fbplayer06]

That's the thing...I don't know if she keeps "intense eye contact" with every guy she talks to or just me (if she likes me). It's hard to tell, but I think she makes less eye contact with any other guy, unless I'm missing something.