"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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steve_erkle

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Many people struggle with holding EC during a conversation. For those who are no good at it, here's a little tip you could use to help you improve this.

When on the phone with someone, focus on one point- specifically something close to you. Just focus on this point as if you were talking to someone and looking into their eyes.

This might help with people who are too shy to jump into holding EC immediately.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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deadaim89

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the first post definitely sounds like a MAYBE or might help . heros link is a thousand times more gold ;]
 
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