I like to make good eye contact with chicks when I talk or listen or when I find them attractive and we're in the same room but I don't know them well. I've found a lot of girls really like it, but I have gotten a few girls who were creped out by my eye contact. It's often difficult to tell if a girl is attracted to me or not so making eye contact with her generally helps me decide the matter. Here's my question: when should a person use eye contact and when should I know when its getting creepy, thanks.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Eye Contact
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
HaremMasterThomas
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Always look everyone in the eye when you are talking to them regardless of their gender, never look at the ground, to the side, or up in the air when you are having a conversation with another person.carmen77 said:
If you are attracted to a hot babe who you have never met before and you are not talking to her smile when you look her in the eye.
Looking another person in the eye portrays you as being a confident person, looking down or away from them makes them think you are a wuss.
If you fvck more hot babes by looking them in the eye than you do if you don't do it then keep doing it.
Don't let anyone else stop you from doing what works for you, if some hot babes don't like it then it is their problem not yours, be a man and do what you want to do.
WC2
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As a rule of thumb I look every guy in the eye sternly when I talk to them.
When it comes to women, of course you shouldn't look at the ground. But don't look them in the eye like they are the first thing you saw when you came out of the womb. When I talk to women, I give them relaxed eye contact. I don't stare at the eyes for 30 seconds on end. Instead, I'll move my eyes around every once in awhile to look at her hair, or maybe even the bartender or bystander.
Eye contact is a great tool to use when important conversation comes up. You look her in the eyes when you have something meaningful to say, and it will not only sound meaningful but look it.
When it comes to women, of course you shouldn't look at the ground. But don't look them in the eye like they are the first thing you saw when you came out of the womb. When I talk to women, I give them relaxed eye contact. I don't stare at the eyes for 30 seconds on end. Instead, I'll move my eyes around every once in awhile to look at her hair, or maybe even the bartender or bystander.
Eye contact is a great tool to use when important conversation comes up. You look her in the eyes when you have something meaningful to say, and it will not only sound meaningful but look it.
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Always make eye contact when interacting with someone and when you're scouting the room for HBs. If she is creeped out by it, I think that's good for you to know so quickly that she's most likely f'd up in the head, or at least doesn't have an interest in you. It's a good sign to move on to the next girl who will hopefully accept your eye contact as the beginnings of a courtship dance. lol 
aka flirting, but you get my drift.
aka flirting, but you get my drift.