I like to make good eye contact with chicks when I talk or listen or when I find them attractive and we're in the same room but I don't know them well. I've found a lot of girls really like it, but I have gotten a few girls who were creped out by my eye contact. It's often difficult to tell if a girl is attracted to me or not so making eye contact with her generally helps me decide the matter. Here's my question: when should a person use eye contact and when should I know when its getting creepy, thanks.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Eye Contact
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
HaremMasterThomas
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Always look everyone in the eye when you are talking to them regardless of their gender, never look at the ground, to the side, or up in the air when you are having a conversation with another person.carmen77 said:
If you are attracted to a hot babe who you have never met before and you are not talking to her smile when you look her in the eye.
Looking another person in the eye portrays you as being a confident person, looking down or away from them makes them think you are a wuss.
If you fvck more hot babes by looking them in the eye than you do if you don't do it then keep doing it.
Don't let anyone else stop you from doing what works for you, if some hot babes don't like it then it is their problem not yours, be a man and do what you want to do.
WC2
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As a rule of thumb I look every guy in the eye sternly when I talk to them.
When it comes to women, of course you shouldn't look at the ground. But don't look them in the eye like they are the first thing you saw when you came out of the womb. When I talk to women, I give them relaxed eye contact. I don't stare at the eyes for 30 seconds on end. Instead, I'll move my eyes around every once in awhile to look at her hair, or maybe even the bartender or bystander.
Eye contact is a great tool to use when important conversation comes up. You look her in the eyes when you have something meaningful to say, and it will not only sound meaningful but look it.
When it comes to women, of course you shouldn't look at the ground. But don't look them in the eye like they are the first thing you saw when you came out of the womb. When I talk to women, I give them relaxed eye contact. I don't stare at the eyes for 30 seconds on end. Instead, I'll move my eyes around every once in awhile to look at her hair, or maybe even the bartender or bystander.
Eye contact is a great tool to use when important conversation comes up. You look her in the eyes when you have something meaningful to say, and it will not only sound meaningful but look it.
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Always make eye contact when interacting with someone and when you're scouting the room for HBs. If she is creeped out by it, I think that's good for you to know so quickly that she's most likely f'd up in the head, or at least doesn't have an interest in you. It's a good sign to move on to the next girl who will hopefully accept your eye contact as the beginnings of a courtship dance. lol 
aka flirting, but you get my drift.
aka flirting, but you get my drift.