"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eye contact with Women Co Workers

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Never in my life have I ever experienced a great deal of eye contact lately. Women at work would LOCK eyes with me.

DO you guys have any SMOOTH lines for busting her for locking eyes with you?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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do i have something in my eyes?
 
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Why do you have to bust them? Yeah, I understand C&F, but that doesn't mean it's always the thing to do... lingering eye contact is a sign of interest. Why don't you try to escalate instead?

The only problem is that you may be asking for problems since they'll still be your co-workers after your fling ends.
 
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dannyegg4575 said:
do i have something in my eyes?
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I tried this to a married chick who has 3 kids from 2 different dudes. She was a 5/10 just to test it out since she always look at me. The short and chubby kind of 26 Year old chick..

Her response:
"i think its just your imaginatoin"

LOL
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr. Me said:
The only problem is that you may be asking for problems since they'll still be your co-workers after your fling ends.
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I can't stress enough how true that is. Mr. Me is usually right listen to this guy.
 
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NoMoreTapDancing said:
Stop Going After Women At Work!!!
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It's not easy.. we all know how boring work is... and when there are hot available women, none of us can say "this is a bad idea, I can't go out with you".
 
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Yeah you'll get sued for sexual harassment and they'll all gang up on you if it goes wrong, it's just not worth it. Make money at work, but leave the hitting on girls to outside office hours.
 
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NoMoreTapDancing said:
Yeah you'll get sued for sexual harassment and they'll all gang up on you if it goes wrong, it's just not worth it. Make money at work, but leave the hitting on girls to outside office hours.
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They only do that if you actually HARASS them. Who does that? If she dumps you, LEAVE HER ALONE! And if you are smooth about asking her out it's not harassment I don't think.
 
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That's the scary thing. You don't even have to harass them anymore that you can get into trouble. You can hit on her even just once, as long as she claims to feel 'unsafe' or 'uncomfortable' by anything you do you can get into a lawsuit. It's crazy but the laws are more in favour of women these days and we have to be aware of that. My advice would be to become friends with the women at work and then you have a new bunch of people to go clubbing with. Then they will bring their friends, and you can hit on them, based on recommendation from your friends, which will make it way easier to hook up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NoMoreTapDancing said:
That's the scary thing. You don't even have to harass them anymore that you can get into trouble. You can hit on her even just once, as long as she claims to feel 'unsafe' or 'uncomfortable' by anything you do you can get into a lawsuit. It's crazy but the laws are more in favour of women these days and we have to be aware of that. My advice would be to become friends with the women at work and then you have a new bunch of people to go clubbing with. Then they will bring their friends, and you can hit on them, based on recommendation from your friends, which will make it way easier to hook up.
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You don't hit on them at work. You talk to them, get their phone #, and hit on them over the phone. Therefore it takes it away from work. If they don't give up the #, leave her alone because she's not interested.
 
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Well its up to you guys, I mean, it doesn't have to be in the place of work for you to get into trouble, so even if you get her number and call her and she doesn't like it you can get into trouble, but hey it's not MY problem, im just offering advice, but when your boss comes to and tells you you're fired and he has a lawsuit on HIS hands then...
 
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NoMoreTapDancing said:
Well its up to you guys, I mean, it doesn't have to be in the place of work for you to get into trouble, so even if you get her number and call her and she doesn't like it you can get into trouble, but hey it's not MY problem, im just offering advice, but when your boss comes to and tells you you're fired and he has a lawsuit on HIS hands then...
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Has this happened to you?? I used to hit on girls at work all the time. Even banged one recently, and it ended horribly. But she never turned me into HR.
 
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I don't recommend hitting on girls at work. My coworker did it 2 years ago and after he dumped her she went to HR for sexual harrassment. I witness him deteriorating physically and emotionally for 2 months before he quit. It's just not worth it.
 
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