Hi all,
Is it true that when a girl looks at you first, or establish eye contact with you first, it generally means they're either ready for you to approach them or they're ready to talk with you?
Recent cases in mind: in a social setting like a cooking class, or a dance class where there's lots of chicks, sometimes I would notice some chicks who are trying to make eye contact with me (ie: from the corner of the eye, I notice someone who fixes their eye contact on me).
Now, to ensure that they're really looking at me and not someone else, I would deliberately avoid any eye contact with them and ignore them, and this causes them to look at me even harder.
Then recently, I started to go up and talk to them since I thought if they're the first to make eye contact, it means they're either ready to talk or are ready for me to approach them etc.
And I realize all the time, it's always a positive result (ie: they're really eager to know you or at least, be social with you)!
On the other hand, and this is where I'm puzzled: there's this other type of girls who does the reverse. They completely ignore me / avoid all eye contact with me and makes me feel like I'm invisible. Is it a good idea to talk to these types without establishing eye contact or just leave them alone since they might have potential issues? I'm not sure about the guys here, but I find it kind of hard if the girl avoids all eye contact altogether in the first place and I haven't even done anything to offend them LOL.
And these girls are not exactly HB8 or 9s....more like 7 or so.
Tks!
Is it true that when a girl looks at you first, or establish eye contact with you first, it generally means they're either ready for you to approach them or they're ready to talk with you?
Recent cases in mind: in a social setting like a cooking class, or a dance class where there's lots of chicks, sometimes I would notice some chicks who are trying to make eye contact with me (ie: from the corner of the eye, I notice someone who fixes their eye contact on me).
Now, to ensure that they're really looking at me and not someone else, I would deliberately avoid any eye contact with them and ignore them, and this causes them to look at me even harder.
Then recently, I started to go up and talk to them since I thought if they're the first to make eye contact, it means they're either ready to talk or are ready for me to approach them etc.
And I realize all the time, it's always a positive result (ie: they're really eager to know you or at least, be social with you)!
On the other hand, and this is where I'm puzzled: there's this other type of girls who does the reverse. They completely ignore me / avoid all eye contact with me and makes me feel like I'm invisible. Is it a good idea to talk to these types without establishing eye contact or just leave them alone since they might have potential issues? I'm not sure about the guys here, but I find it kind of hard if the girl avoids all eye contact altogether in the first place and I haven't even done anything to offend them LOL.
And these girls are not exactly HB8 or 9s....more like 7 or so.
Tks!