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tobiashunter

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Ok I read about Eye contact, but it doesn't answer my question, per se.

My good friend and I went out to dinner (including her roomate). I am attract to my friend, and already asked her out once (but was declined.... But meh, there are other women...). I found out, VIA roomate, that she declined me because she was "talking" to another guy. Well, at dinner, we made direct, and sustained eyecontact for abnormal periods of time (I am usually around this girl 1-3 hours a day because of college).

Today, we were studying for our exam and the eye contact came back. We were just shooting the bull on something (I think it was food actually...) and her eyes were GLUED to my eyes... She has never done this before dinner the previous night.

My question is... is the EC: friend EC or is it "trying to show attraction" EC?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Find out if she is still "talking to this other guy." If things didn't work out, she may be going to you as a back up it would seem. I don't know how you feel about that, but it is a possibility you should be aware of. Next time you catch her looking at you for a long time break out the ****y+funny on her, bust her on it.

Such as:

"Not that I don't love staring contests, I just want to know when you want to stop trying to stare me down?"

Of course feel free to bust out your own C+F since you know this girl better than I, obiviously. Oh, and make her play the chasing game since she denied you the first time, make her work a little for it, just to keep her honest.

-Grey Fox
 
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sometime eye contact is just normal eye contact , if u were staring in each others eyes without saying a word for a long enough time then i would asume she shows some affection but other then that its normally just a normal thing when ur with someone else....
 
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The thing is, I am always "****y and funny" with her... thats normally when the staring happens. I "pick on her" playfully. Like I always say she is sooo mean to me and stuff like that (all in a playful manner, and she plays back).
 
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