You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Trust me - I wish you were right about it being 100% trolling -- but I am not convinced it is.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This.
He's real. Another (female) member of SS lives in the same county as him. They were going to meet up, but she said he drove her crazy she had to block him due to the amount of messages he sent her. It's not that he's dense, it's because he's, well, special and a little slow.
You have a bromance going on with biggoal. That's textbook "how to mess things up" 100%. Hope your bromance works out with biggoal though.
So within 20 miles OLD has hardly anyone on there active and POF some landwhales. Even Bumble can go days without hardly any new on there unless it's a flight attendant at the airport down the street. Otherwise, gotta put the settings to 30 miles.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hardly.
If you killed a set up of a date because you sent a bunch of messages then it really does not matter what you say at this point. Your location does not matter because your head is not right. Even I cant mess up things like that. That actually takes skill. You see, the average guy understands trial and error. You should have learned some game basics by now such as keeping your desperation to yourself and gauging a woman's interest level. If your interest level is 100% and hers is 50%, her 50% is going to go lower and you end up friendzoned or you just scare her off. It doesn't matter what you think about her and writing more emails to her isn't going to make her like you because it just lowers your value further. It shows you have no options and nobody wants you.