"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Eye Contact and Eyes

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This is my first post... and In 2 days have nearly memorized all the DJ's Bible... This is a fantastic site and I thank u all for contributing with ur experience for all the AFCs that come here 4 a visit (including me, lol).

I now know that EC is realy important, and I meditated a bit and thought what if u have EC and have nice eyes, it surely would gain more interest from the girl ur aiming at.

I now want to ask... surely some of u know about cosmetic contact lenses... do u think they could be usefull or just a waist of time and money?

I'm Italian, so I bet I can afford some English mistakes. :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It doesnt really matter what color your eyes are for effective EC. The way you hold eye contact and your facial expressions are more important.

Yea, some girls like guys with blue eyes but others like brown or green eyes. In conclusion, your eye color is really a moot point when it comes to making successfull eye contact with a girl. Its all about showing confidence and interest.
 

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I'm Italian, so I bet I can afford some English mistakes. :p

>> No te preocupado, tu Inglese e buon, e migliore del mio Italiano. Buona sera, come stai? Dove in Italia siete? Che regione?? Ho nat a la, en il regione di Molise, vicina la citta piccola di Isernia. E una regione molta rurale, molta piccola. Cosi, e piu facile da ottenere numeri de ragazze in Italia, adesso ? O che ?? Come sono le ragazze la?? ~Dino :cool:
 

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Originally posted by DinoCassanova
I'm Italian, so I bet I can afford some English mistakes. :p

>> No te preocupado, tu Inglese e buon, e migliore del mio Italiano.
Your not lieing. Either your confused with spanish and italian or you just suck at spelling.
 

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>> Lieing??? Suck at spelling anyone?? :rolleyes: Anyway, yeah I know , I sometimes do accidentally mix in Spanish with Italian when I speak it. Call it Spitalian. ;-) That's because I had 4 yrs of Spanish in h.s., and at the same time I grew up hearing (and speaking) our family's regional "dialect". Which is a rough kind of dialect, directly derived (so I've learned through my copious amounts of Internet research into such peculiar topics) from what was called in ancient times "barracks" or "camp" Latin, as spoken by the Italic soldiers of the Roman Legions. But what I was writing to ItalianoPuro in is/was as close as I could get to "proper" school-sounding Italian. I'm not sure what region he's from, so if I just start saying things to him in our regional dialect, he may well not understand me at all see, especially if he's from "the North". ~D
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by whyshy
Your not lieing. Either your confused with spanish and italian or you just suck at spelling.
whyshy your italian also...so why you hating..huh?
 

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well my friend, a girl told me that a guy looked better than me, because he had eye color on me...i dont really care what she says, becuase im the best looking guy on this planet....but i would like to experiment with hazel eyes....so im gettin em...and i think you should go for it also!
 

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Originally posted by E_ze05
well my friend, a girl told me that a guy looked better than me, because he had eye color on me...i dont really care what she says, becuase im the best looking guy on this planet....but i would like to experiment with hazel eyes....so im gettin em...and i think you should go for it also!
Chicks do this sort of thing. From my observations only vain and insecure chumps do this sort of thing. Not trying to dis ya. :)
 

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Please don't fuc-k with those fake contacts, they look fake as shi-t man.... especially the blue ones. I was talking to some girls about this and they said they can see right through the things and they are way too bright in most cases to be realistic looking. PLUS, won't you feel like a loser idiot after the girl finally figures out your eyes are not that color? Talk about showing your high self-esteem :rolleyes:

Of course women are going to wear them. It's right up there with face-lifts, botox treatments, lip implants, breast implants, liposuction, and nose surgery. Remember the double standard though.... just because they do it doesn't mean they like it when other people do it. I'm not going to completely change my mind about a woman just because she changes her eye color, but it certainly doesn't help with my image of her, as far as her personality/confidence is concerned.
 

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Hazel?? See mine are hazel, by nature. But I've always thought that's not that great of a color, that I'd be better off with something like really dark brown maybe, either that or really light pale blue or something (although those would have to be fake because nobody in my family line has blue eyes like that). Anyway, goes to show you, the grass is always greener......
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by ItalianoPuro
This is my first post... and In 2 days have nearly memorized all the DJ's Bible... This is a fantastic site and I thank u all for contributing with ur experience for all the AFCs that come here 4 a visit (including me, lol).

I now know that EC is realy important, and I meditated a bit and thought what if u have EC and have nice eyes, it surely would gain more interest from the girl ur aiming at.

I now want to ask... surely some of u know about cosmetic contact lenses... do u think they could be usefull or just a waist of time and money?

I'm Italian, so I bet I can afford some English mistakes. :p

I didnt even read your post and i got a good description what you talking about....Look! with a broad there is no sure-fire signs-when you come on to her and she likes it then go ahead! There are no safe signs-go for it-TAKE ITS YOURS!

"Turn Fear Into Curiosity"
 

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Originally posted by wowiehowie
Chicks do this sort of thing. From my observations only vain and insecure chumps do this sort of thing. Not trying to dis ya. :)
wow do you know what your talkign about......NOOOO
 

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Originally posted by E_ze05
wow do you know what your talkign about......NOOOO
Actually he was exactly right. It is something insecure chumps do.
 

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Hey Guys :p

and CIAO DINO :D, nice to meet an italian :p

and sorry guys for cosmetic lenses I meant lenses that deepen ur look, or make it look better in any way... not necessary a color change... I know some are not very good but others quite good I know... they usually use them in photography when enfasizing on the eyes.

And well.. I don't feel insecure anymore... and I was only thinking about the "peacock rule", make ur looks emerge from the crowd.

But if u don't see the point in it, I'll just won't waist my time in it...

thx to u all DJ... ur da' best! :D
 

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Originally posted by DinoCassanova
I'm Italian, so I bet I can afford some English mistakes. :p

>> No te preocupado, tu Inglese e buon, e migliore del mio Italiano. Buona sera, come stai? Dove in Italia siete? Che regione?? Ho nat a la, en il regione di Molise, vicina la citta piccola di Isernia. E una regione molta rurale, molta piccola. Cosi, e piu facile da ottenere numeri de ragazze in Italia, adesso ? O che ?? Come sono le ragazze la?? ~Dino :cool:

actually, your spelling is really poor, no offense:D

anyway, you're not writing in a dialect, that is just plain italian with some mistakes, not a regional dialect.

how old were you when you moved to the states?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by wowiehowie
Chicks do this sort of thing. From my observations only vain and insecure chumps do this sort of thing. Not trying to dis ya. :)
Haha

Owned
 

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how old were you when you moved to the states?

>> summer of '81. So, almost 6 yrs old. I never learned properly how to write well , express myself well in writing, in Italiano. Actually, "sto imparando adesso," (make sense???) or I'm trying at least; taking a night class one night a week in basic Ital.grammar and writing, etc. As I said, as far as speaking however, we speak , my family & I that is, we speak the local Abruzzo/Molise dialect from the town , Pizzone, where I was born. And when I do , especially after 4 yrs here in American high school with Spanish as my "foreign language" (and now that I work with mostly Hispanic American guys) I start lately to mix in too much Spanish (or "Mexican" actually) with Italian as well. Sorry, hopefully the writing was able to at least get the basic point across. ~Dino :confused:
 
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