“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eye contact and a nasty habbit.

Themanthatcan

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I have no problem looking into a girls eyes during conversation.No problem at all. The problem is every time I do, I start nodding my head at everything she says. I've noticed it during conversation. I've also noticed when I look a girl in her eyes, I have a hard time paying attention to what she is saying. Kinda feels like I'm getting caught in the "sharing a moment" thing and don't pay enough attention to what she says. Is this a big deal, or something I should just brush off?

Post some advice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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THE_ADDMAN

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doesnt sound like too big of a problem. just work on paying more attention to her.
 

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Stare at her tits instead.
 

ryannath

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I have this problem too, but it's not just with girls. Whenever I look in a persons eyes, I totally am not listening to what they are saying because I am so concentrated on looking in their eyes. If I don't keep eye contact, I can follow along fine. Very weird.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You can draw a pair of eyes on your eye lids, like Jack Sparrow in Pirates of the Carribean. That way you are not starring at her yet she thinks you are.
 

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Try looking at foreheads while talking to strangers, it works even when police interrogate you, they'll think you looking at their eyes (anti-lie-detector). Then look into eyes once in a while till you comfortable with it...
 
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