Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Extremely Weird Chick

jakeyboy

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met this girl working in the club. gave me her number on the first night we met. contacted her a couple of times(she hardly answered any of my calls), seemed mildly interested in going out with me, then blew me off at the last minute.

was pretty cheesed off, so i deleted her number from my phonebook

last month, i went back to the club and i saw her there again. she remembered me and all, then asked if i still had her number, because i didn't contact her all this while, and then i admitted no, i deleted her phone because i had labelled her as flakey...blah blah. then we joked and she even took the liberty of flipping her phonebook and showing me she didnt lose my number, "how could you lose my number jake??" haha, wanted to piss her off and ask her if that was her little black book of "trophies" but i didnt.

anyways the thing is, she wrote down her number for me again, and i said that i would catch up with her another time, for a drink or something. so i tried to call her for a date a few times, she never replied any of my messages or returned any calls. i'm not really desperate for her, nor do i need this woman's attention, i'm just curious to know, if any of you should be able to answer this... WHY THE HELL WOULD ANY WOMAN WANT TO GIVE YOU HER NUMBER SO EAGERLY, AND THEN NEVER PICK UP WHEN YOU CALL???????? THATS PLAIN REDICULOUS WHEN SHE SEEMED INTERESTED IN THE FIRST PLACE. THIS IS **** WEIRD.

any input welcome.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fenderules

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yeah some chicks are like that. This one would phone me all the time but when we set something up she would flake. I wasnt *****y cause she has a couple hot friends that are cute so i just pretty much became friends with her, and then she still falked so i jut ganji's her ass and i dont care if she ever talks to me again.
 

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Its more painful trying to figure these things out then just say chalk it up to a flakey female and forget about it.

Throw away her number and never call her again... after all she still has your number right - she can call you if she is interested.
 

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It's pretty easy man.

Do you like it when a girl calls you back within a good time when you leave a voicemail?

Do you like it when a girl picks up her phone more than half the time you call her?

Do you like it when a girl says yes to you when you ask her out for dates and doesn't cancel?

If you said YES to any of the above and with this current girl you're not getting any of that. DELETE, MOVE ON.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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