"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Extremely Weak Wrists

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Hey, I have small (structurally) and "dainty" wrists. They're extremely weak and I've broken both of them at one point. The left one which healed completely is fine, however I'm having problem with the right one. Whenver, I use it too much it starts to pain me. This happened a lot after I had the cast removed but then got better and only hurt occasionaly.

Friday I was punching a punching bag and everthing was alright. Saturday no problems. Today (sunday) it's hurting the most it has ever since getting the cast removed and I broke it 2 years ago. So I have a few questions:

Anyone experienced something simillar and have advice? How should I strengthen my wrists to make them bigger, stronger, and healthier.

Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Push ups. And take Glucosamine Sulphate as a supplement for healthy joints and ligaments.
 

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I have dainty wrists too. Never posed any actual problems, but it sucks having girl-sized wrists. I don't think there's anything you can do to really make them any bigger.
 

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Have you tried one of these?

http://www.jumpusa.com/dynaflex_powerball.html

It helps me a lot with wrists. It will also help build your forearms too. I have a basic one that doesn't light up or anything. I've noticed that a lot of people in the medical community recommend these things too.
 

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Don't do pushups.
I had serious trouble with my wrists, after a boxing injury, because for 4 months I did nothing but pushups, which loosened my wrists terribly.
Do KNUCKLE pushups, sure.
Take the weight off a dumbell and rotate it in front of you, lever it one side to the other.
Do some heavy grip work, like towel pullups.
Wrist curls with light dumbells or weight plates.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MrS said:
Do KNUCKLE pushups, sure.
Yeh those are actually better, keeps the wrists straight and relieves excessive tension exerted from body weight.
 

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For the powerball couldn't I just use a regular ball. Also, I can do pushups alot of pushups when my wrists are fine without anyproblems but right now I'd probably struggle to do 15 because of the wrist. I guess it'll heal in some time, it just sucks to have wrists smaller than some girl's wrists.
 

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Id leave push up out for now, unless you're going to do it with knuckles.

Start working your grip & forearms. Take is slow, and do some dumbbell twists (exactly what it sounds like) and again, take it slow. Im not sure how hurt your wrist are but Id suggest starting with 5lbs and working your way up with what you feel comfortable doing.

Throw in some wrist curls (both sides) & plate curls to strengthen them a bit more & work your way up. I dont want to throw #'s out to work towards, but you'd be surprised at how strong your wrists & grip can get with a bit of work.

Good luck.
 

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Spade_1 said:
For the powerball couldn't I just use a regular ball. Also, I can do pushups alot of pushups when my wrists are fine without anyproblems but right now I'd probably struggle to do 15 because of the wrist. I guess it'll heal in some time, it just sucks to have wrists smaller than some girl's wrists.
A regular ball? You mean a regular ball without a gyro? It wouldn't have the same effect. the powerball is a gyro, and when started, you can ramp up the speed of the gyro to incredibly fast rotations. The rotations causes torque which will train and strengthen the muscles. Here is the most common way for starting the gyro: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFe51e4Cieo
I got mine at a local sports store for 20 bucks. One of the best investments I made in terms of fitness/rehab products.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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