"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Extreme stoic. very little emotion

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I've noticed through life that my emotions are dead like. I always try to the extreme to be either happy , scared, excited , feel love and other emotions and very very rarely feel them. Even when in intense pain I barely acknowledge it. I hate it so danm bad , seeing other people enjoy life while I care less about anything. whats causes it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm the same way man. Except I tend to get angry a lot and that drives me.

But whenever someone dies or my friends want to complain to me I just say "TALK TO THE HAND" and walk away, it's not even that I don't care. I don't even care enough to pretend like I care.

I rationalize everything to be "well, wtf it's gonna be fvcked anyways oh well." Only things I care about = me, my family...that's about it.
 

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how we were raised i suppose

like everything it is a force of habit.
 

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mabye you are just a couple of sociopaths
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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.....sorry but I really don't care about this thread













































































(I couldn't help myself)
 

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^^ The OP sounds like he has depression, whereas you sound narcissistic, thats not a dig at yo' btw, im just saying.

I've got this issue where I don't express emotions as readily as most people, so I get a lot of folks saying "you always look unfazed by sh1t" to me, and that annoys the sh1t through me.
 

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The OP, IMO, needs to see a consouler. A good consouler can try to help determine how one's historical & present cognitive/behavioral patterns are affecting him & suggest a course of action. Sometimes just having insight into why one is feeling the way he is can be beneficial.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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