Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Extreme stoic. very little emotion

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I've noticed through life that my emotions are dead like. I always try to the extreme to be either happy , scared, excited , feel love and other emotions and very very rarely feel them. Even when in intense pain I barely acknowledge it. I hate it so danm bad , seeing other people enjoy life while I care less about anything. whats causes it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desert Fox

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I'm the same way man. Except I tend to get angry a lot and that drives me.

But whenever someone dies or my friends want to complain to me I just say "TALK TO THE HAND" and walk away, it's not even that I don't care. I don't even care enough to pretend like I care.

I rationalize everything to be "well, wtf it's gonna be fvcked anyways oh well." Only things I care about = me, my family...that's about it.
 

Desert Fox

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how we were raised i suppose

like everything it is a force of habit.
 

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mabye you are just a couple of sociopaths
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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.....sorry but I really don't care about this thread













































































(I couldn't help myself)
 

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^^ The OP sounds like he has depression, whereas you sound narcissistic, thats not a dig at yo' btw, im just saying.

I've got this issue where I don't express emotions as readily as most people, so I get a lot of folks saying "you always look unfazed by sh1t" to me, and that annoys the sh1t through me.
 

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The OP, IMO, needs to see a consouler. A good consouler can try to help determine how one's historical & present cognitive/behavioral patterns are affecting him & suggest a course of action. Sometimes just having insight into why one is feeling the way he is can be beneficial.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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