Greetings fellow DJ members.
Found PUA/DJ community in June. Learned I had some AFC tendencies and have began to dismantle them piece by piece. I've always been good with girls but was missing opportunities to capitalize with them all the time.
Not only that but everyone seems to be doubting me lately. You name it, friends, family, everyone I know considers me an underachiever and a loser. Even though I have honorably served my country lead a drug free life, and live on my own supporting myself.
I was approached and asked out by girls all the way up until 9th grade. Where then I hit a deep depression that I've been struggling with for the last 8 years. Namely because of parental abandonment issues which I believe has made me a commitment phobe. Not just girls it seems I can't commit to anything.
Moving Forward..........
I've taken to doing alot of reading lately and I will say I've been highly inspired by Napoleon Hills' work. Specifically I've been re-energized by "Think and Grow Rich"
This thread will document my transformation from perceived underachiever to the ultimate DJ.
Heres the deal folks. This just isn't about shagging chicks. This is a complete and utter transformation. Which will im
Phase 1. (Financial Phase)
Step 1. Procure a better paying job as a car salesman.
Right now the Job I have is wack. I don't even want to get into it because I will get nauseated by merely describing it. I've done some checking and with my skills and desire to be a DJ sales seems like the logical choice. I figure I can make some decent coin and work on social mastery at the same time.
Step 2. Save as much money as I possibly can.
Basically this means living bare bones. Cutting off internet access, cable, excess food expenses, and any other expense that is not a basic necessity.
Phase 2 (Physical Phase)
Step 1. 10 percent BF% by 1 July 2005. Point blank. I will follow the cut program that is documented @ abcbodybuilding.com
Right now I stand 5'10 weigh 200 LB's and my BF % is in the low 20's. I have a naturally athletic body but it is obscured under this ugly fat. On top of the 10% I will also aim to have well defined AB's, Pec's, and Bi's.
Step 2. I'm currently in the Army Reserves and am administered PT tests (physical training) at my leisure. The test consists of pushups, setups, and a 2 mile run. 300 points is the max you can score. I will also undertake the task of mixing this test by 1 July 2005.
Phase 3 (Don Juan Phase)
Step 1. I will hone my DJ skills at least every day. I will also make it a point to go out at least one night week to solely do approaches, random convos, and street sarges. I will not stop this pursuit until I have a rotation of 3-4 girls that I can shag on any given time. I will make it a point to make sure this doesn't interfere with my first two phases because they are of the most importance.
Step 2. I will use the DYD approach because IMHO I am an naturally funny and ****y guy when I'm not depressed. Which is about half the time.
So this brings me to my final stage of the transformation:
The Goal.
My goal has always been to be a helicopter pilot. Right now my financial situation won't allow me to pursue that. Plus my credit is good but I doubt I would be loaned 40,000 dollars that it takes to pay for pilot school.
To top that off my current location offers no adequate pilot training for Helicopters.
So in order to attain this lofty goal I will have to do the following::
1. Get finances/credit in order.
2. Further research schools and flight training material.
3. Move to a new location that offers a good flight school.
This project is for my own benefit. Feel free to ignore or reply to my postings in this. I will update this at least 3-4 times a week and do a monthly re-evaluation (inventory) to see where I am and adjust accordingly.
Wish me luck fellas. I'm about to break out of my comfort zone in a major way.
Today the following is to be done.
Cancel Cable/Net
Disconnect PS2
Get my best shirt/slacks/shoes combo and go out to apply for the aforementioned sales positions.
**I will do all my updates from the public libraries PC.
Found PUA/DJ community in June. Learned I had some AFC tendencies and have began to dismantle them piece by piece. I've always been good with girls but was missing opportunities to capitalize with them all the time.
Not only that but everyone seems to be doubting me lately. You name it, friends, family, everyone I know considers me an underachiever and a loser. Even though I have honorably served my country lead a drug free life, and live on my own supporting myself.
I was approached and asked out by girls all the way up until 9th grade. Where then I hit a deep depression that I've been struggling with for the last 8 years. Namely because of parental abandonment issues which I believe has made me a commitment phobe. Not just girls it seems I can't commit to anything.
Moving Forward..........
I've taken to doing alot of reading lately and I will say I've been highly inspired by Napoleon Hills' work. Specifically I've been re-energized by "Think and Grow Rich"
This thread will document my transformation from perceived underachiever to the ultimate DJ.
Heres the deal folks. This just isn't about shagging chicks. This is a complete and utter transformation. Which will im
Phase 1. (Financial Phase)
Step 1. Procure a better paying job as a car salesman.
Right now the Job I have is wack. I don't even want to get into it because I will get nauseated by merely describing it. I've done some checking and with my skills and desire to be a DJ sales seems like the logical choice. I figure I can make some decent coin and work on social mastery at the same time.
Step 2. Save as much money as I possibly can.
Basically this means living bare bones. Cutting off internet access, cable, excess food expenses, and any other expense that is not a basic necessity.
Phase 2 (Physical Phase)
Step 1. 10 percent BF% by 1 July 2005. Point blank. I will follow the cut program that is documented @ abcbodybuilding.com
Right now I stand 5'10 weigh 200 LB's and my BF % is in the low 20's. I have a naturally athletic body but it is obscured under this ugly fat. On top of the 10% I will also aim to have well defined AB's, Pec's, and Bi's.
Step 2. I'm currently in the Army Reserves and am administered PT tests (physical training) at my leisure. The test consists of pushups, setups, and a 2 mile run. 300 points is the max you can score. I will also undertake the task of mixing this test by 1 July 2005.
Phase 3 (Don Juan Phase)
Step 1. I will hone my DJ skills at least every day. I will also make it a point to go out at least one night week to solely do approaches, random convos, and street sarges. I will not stop this pursuit until I have a rotation of 3-4 girls that I can shag on any given time. I will make it a point to make sure this doesn't interfere with my first two phases because they are of the most importance.
Step 2. I will use the DYD approach because IMHO I am an naturally funny and ****y guy when I'm not depressed. Which is about half the time.
So this brings me to my final stage of the transformation:
The Goal.
My goal has always been to be a helicopter pilot. Right now my financial situation won't allow me to pursue that. Plus my credit is good but I doubt I would be loaned 40,000 dollars that it takes to pay for pilot school.
To top that off my current location offers no adequate pilot training for Helicopters.
So in order to attain this lofty goal I will have to do the following::
1. Get finances/credit in order.
2. Further research schools and flight training material.
3. Move to a new location that offers a good flight school.
This project is for my own benefit. Feel free to ignore or reply to my postings in this. I will update this at least 3-4 times a week and do a monthly re-evaluation (inventory) to see where I am and adjust accordingly.
Wish me luck fellas. I'm about to break out of my comfort zone in a major way.
Today the following is to be done.
Cancel Cable/Net
Disconnect PS2
Get my best shirt/slacks/shoes combo and go out to apply for the aforementioned sales positions.
**I will do all my updates from the public libraries PC.