"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Extreme Dilemna- Moral and Social Issues

Scandalous

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Women. Social Acceptance. Sexual Fulfillment.

-CHECK-


[Intro]
Wow, this website has helped me. I use these lines and techniques, a natural sense of C&F and all those little quirky mind tricks by RJ (Ross Jeffries). I have my rating system, my negging system, and my calculatory thoughts.

[The problems, and their titles]
I have a problem, when I was attempting to flirt on my own, I had that DVA syndrome. (Another name I came up with "Devil vs. Angel" when conflicting thoughts sieze your attention away from the task at hand. "Should I kiss, yes, no, wait..." crap like that) Now DVA doesn't exist at all. Great. So all you promising Dj's reading this and even you AB's (Arch-Bishops of pimpdom) must be begging me to get to the central theme of this topic. Well, I feel as if I need that little voice to remind the delicacy of the situation. now all I hear is "Got this one" and I even start lookin for prospects in the middle of a pick up.


[Where did they go?]
Women no longer exist. All I see is HB, IF (I'd f*ck), BR (BORED with the REST), and numbers. Titles even. HB7.8 IF3 BR5 (My IF and BR system are on a 1-5 scale.) When they laugh I feel like they are too stupid to do anything else, when they smile I wish they reacted differently. I wonder if a shepherd feels this way after leading the sheep for a while. Does he wish one would run, just so he could have a change.

[4posts and strong]
I have used the advice readily available here as much as I can and applied it. I know I'm 4 posts in but this experience was obviously not for the better; I'm writing this now as a warning. The further you delve the more non-existent women become as people. To me, objects at best. The ones I have and respect as friend are not women to me. I used to have lady friends, with pure intentions (still do to some extent) and I can be attracted but distant enough that the friendship is healthy. Now I see them all as objects and those lady friends make me think 'If I really tried I could have her, but what a waste.'

[The goal]
I guess my change and my quest for DJ status in highschool is succesful but, now I wish I could find a girl who was smarter than this.


[Impossible]
No girl is smarter with the right technique.

The system was made to use their own perceived strength against them, the 'emotion' factor.

Therefore a lesbian is the only one immune to this. (f*ckin dykes :D )

[-----------]
I guess that's it for me, maybe this is a phase but I hope this can change. I've only come to realize this only creates a stronger bond in the male community and a greater rift with the intersexual community.


-EDIT-
3 seconds after I post and I read something about myself. My username 'Scandalous' shocking how a name that was derived just to register could well represent thought. I guess my sub-conscious gets credit for that one.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Soprano

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What exactly does the BR (BORED with the REST) mean?
 

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BR= someone I would pick because there's something different about them. Something others would overlook. She's bored with the rest of the guys.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OneArmDeeJay

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So what are you saying?

Thanks to this site you have gotten more ass then a toilet seat but now you view all women as objects and no longer human beings?

When you are with one woman you are thinking about another.

You have even broken down women into two negative categories.

Yet at the same time you want more. You are no longer happy of all the accomplishments that you’ve gained.


You want a women that is different then all the rest an intelligent one that matches your wits yet you believe there isn’t one, it’s and I quote “impossible” but yet you keep on looking.

Again what is the purpose and meaning to your post?

Please explain…..
 

penkitten

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dude, turn off the computer and put down the "how to pick up women" books and go outside and do something.

you are getting extreme and that was never the purpose of this site or any of those books.

the purpose was to help you get dates, improve yourself, not help you look at a woman and think of her as a number.
 
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