"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Extreme Dilemna- Moral and Social Issues

Scandalous

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Women. Social Acceptance. Sexual Fulfillment.

-CHECK-


[Intro]
Wow, this website has helped me. I use these lines and techniques, a natural sense of C&F and all those little quirky mind tricks by RJ (Ross Jeffries). I have my rating system, my negging system, and my calculatory thoughts.

[The problems, and their titles]
I have a problem, when I was attempting to flirt on my own, I had that DVA syndrome. (Another name I came up with "Devil vs. Angel" when conflicting thoughts sieze your attention away from the task at hand. "Should I kiss, yes, no, wait..." crap like that) Now DVA doesn't exist at all. Great. So all you promising Dj's reading this and even you AB's (Arch-Bishops of pimpdom) must be begging me to get to the central theme of this topic. Well, I feel as if I need that little voice to remind the delicacy of the situation. now all I hear is "Got this one" and I even start lookin for prospects in the middle of a pick up.


[Where did they go?]
Women no longer exist. All I see is HB, IF (I'd f*ck), BR (BORED with the REST), and numbers. Titles even. HB7.8 IF3 BR5 (My IF and BR system are on a 1-5 scale.) When they laugh I feel like they are too stupid to do anything else, when they smile I wish they reacted differently. I wonder if a shepherd feels this way after leading the sheep for a while. Does he wish one would run, just so he could have a change.

[4posts and strong]
I have used the advice readily available here as much as I can and applied it. I know I'm 4 posts in but this experience was obviously not for the better; I'm writing this now as a warning. The further you delve the more non-existent women become as people. To me, objects at best. The ones I have and respect as friend are not women to me. I used to have lady friends, with pure intentions (still do to some extent) and I can be attracted but distant enough that the friendship is healthy. Now I see them all as objects and those lady friends make me think 'If I really tried I could have her, but what a waste.'

[The goal]
I guess my change and my quest for DJ status in highschool is succesful but, now I wish I could find a girl who was smarter than this.


[Impossible]
No girl is smarter with the right technique.

The system was made to use their own perceived strength against them, the 'emotion' factor.

Therefore a lesbian is the only one immune to this. (f*ckin dykes :D )

[-----------]
I guess that's it for me, maybe this is a phase but I hope this can change. I've only come to realize this only creates a stronger bond in the male community and a greater rift with the intersexual community.


-EDIT-
3 seconds after I post and I read something about myself. My username 'Scandalous' shocking how a name that was derived just to register could well represent thought. I guess my sub-conscious gets credit for that one.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Soprano

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What exactly does the BR (BORED with the REST) mean?
 

Scandalous

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BR= someone I would pick because there's something different about them. Something others would overlook. She's bored with the rest of the guys.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OneArmDeeJay

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So what are you saying?

Thanks to this site you have gotten more ass then a toilet seat but now you view all women as objects and no longer human beings?

When you are with one woman you are thinking about another.

You have even broken down women into two negative categories.

Yet at the same time you want more. You are no longer happy of all the accomplishments that you’ve gained.


You want a women that is different then all the rest an intelligent one that matches your wits yet you believe there isn’t one, it’s and I quote “impossible” but yet you keep on looking.

Again what is the purpose and meaning to your post?

Please explain…..
 

penkitten

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dude, turn off the computer and put down the "how to pick up women" books and go outside and do something.

you are getting extreme and that was never the purpose of this site or any of those books.

the purpose was to help you get dates, improve yourself, not help you look at a woman and think of her as a number.
 
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