“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ex's Birthday Party

TheMonkeyKing

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My ex of a couple of years ago has invited me to her birthday party on Saturday.

We had a fairly amicable break up, she's been orbiting me online and now I think she's trying get back in with me, though sort of lumping me in to the friend zone first to test the water.

Trouble is, friend zone or whatever, I'm not really so interested anymore anyway, though would probably still bang for old times sake. I'm actually intrigued to go as she has a few hot friends, in particular her old flatmate who I really want to bang, and probably even more now after a couple of years.

Do I go and play the friend card, and help myself to the buffet?Appropriate, or inappropriate? Or avoid potential drama, start afresh and go out elsewhere. [I'd be happy to run this as a field test for the information of the audience.]
 

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My ex of a couple of years ago has invited me to her birthday party on Saturday.

We had a fairly amicable break up, she's been orbiting me online and now I think she's trying get back in with me, though sort of lumping me in to the friend zone first to test the water.

Trouble is, friend zone or whatever, I'm not really so interested anymore anyway, though would probably still bang for old times sake. I'm actually intrigued to go as she has a few hot friends, in particular her old flatmate who I really want to bang, and probably even more now after a couple of years.

Do I go and play the friend card, and help myself to the buffet?Appropriate, or inappropriate? Or avoid potential drama, start afresh and go out elsewhere. [I'd be happy to run this as a field test for the information of the audience.]
Go. Pay no attention to her except civil greetings.

Mingle with her friends. Score her friends phone numbers. Thank her for a nice time. Leave. Set up dates with the new girls.

But keep in mind. Her friends already "know you" because of what she has told them.

Be fun. Don't take it too seriously
 

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I say go to the party and meet new babes. But also make plans to bang a current plate either before or after yo go to the party.
 

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Go to meet new b!tches bruh. Better to go and fail than not go and say you didn’t. Plus, you got nothing to lose really.
 

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How about go and do what you want.

Want to get the ex hammered and smash? Awesome.

Grab 3 phones numbers from her friends and smash 2 of them later that night (preferably together)? Even better.

Do what you want. I would be careful not to give the ex too much attention. Just be a social butterfly with all the ladies.

Oh one more thing- women love competition for c0ck.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Go and do what you want. You and she are friends.
 

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If what you crave is attention and drama then go.....

She obviously has some pull on you .
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hey, even though that response was not for me.....I got a notification....

glitches in the site?
No, it notified you because you had commented on this thread, and there was a new post
 

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Don't you have anything else better to do on that day than to go into her space?
 

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Don't you have anything else better to do on that day than to go into her space?
It's a fair point. Kinda decided not to go. She is mostly a decent girl and doesn't really deserve me going along an hitting on her friends. Plus I'm better off seeking pastures new.
 

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It's a fair point. Kinda decided not to go. She is mostly a decent girl and doesn't really deserve me going along an hitting on her friends. Plus I'm better off seeking pastures new.
Exactly.

"No, thanks. I have a date."

That should do it.
 

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i cant stand when female relatives/friends bring new bfs to a gathering and dont leave their side all night. they look like losers to me.
I have been that loser before, a long time ago. Never again.
 
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