"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ex's Birthday Party

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My ex of a couple of years ago has invited me to her birthday party on Saturday.

We had a fairly amicable break up, she's been orbiting me online and now I think she's trying get back in with me, though sort of lumping me in to the friend zone first to test the water.

Trouble is, friend zone or whatever, I'm not really so interested anymore anyway, though would probably still bang for old times sake. I'm actually intrigued to go as she has a few hot friends, in particular her old flatmate who I really want to bang, and probably even more now after a couple of years.

Do I go and play the friend card, and help myself to the buffet?Appropriate, or inappropriate? Or avoid potential drama, start afresh and go out elsewhere. [I'd be happy to run this as a field test for the information of the audience.]
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheMonkeyKing said:
My ex of a couple of years ago has invited me to her birthday party on Saturday.

We had a fairly amicable break up, she's been orbiting me online and now I think she's trying get back in with me, though sort of lumping me in to the friend zone first to test the water.

Trouble is, friend zone or whatever, I'm not really so interested anymore anyway, though would probably still bang for old times sake. I'm actually intrigued to go as she has a few hot friends, in particular her old flatmate who I really want to bang, and probably even more now after a couple of years.

Do I go and play the friend card, and help myself to the buffet?Appropriate, or inappropriate? Or avoid potential drama, start afresh and go out elsewhere. [I'd be happy to run this as a field test for the information of the audience.]
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Go. Pay no attention to her except civil greetings.

Mingle with her friends. Score her friends phone numbers. Thank her for a nice time. Leave. Set up dates with the new girls.

But keep in mind. Her friends already "know you" because of what she has told them.

Be fun. Don't take it too seriously
 
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I say go to the party and meet new babes. But also make plans to bang a current plate either before or after yo go to the party.
 
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Go to meet new b!tches bruh. Better to go and fail than not go and say you didn’t. Plus, you got nothing to lose really.
 
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How about go and do what you want.

Want to get the ex hammered and smash? Awesome.

Grab 3 phones numbers from her friends and smash 2 of them later that night (preferably together)? Even better.

Do what you want. I would be careful not to give the ex too much attention. Just be a social butterfly with all the ladies.

Oh one more thing- women love competition for c0ck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Go and do what you want. You and she are friends.
 
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If what you crave is attention and drama then go.....

She obviously has some pull on you .
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JesusJones said:
Hey, even though that response was not for me.....I got a notification....

glitches in the site?
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No, it notified you because you had commented on this thread, and there was a new post
 
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Don't you have anything else better to do on that day than to go into her space?
 
TheMonkeyKing

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El Payaso said:
Don't you have anything else better to do on that day than to go into her space?
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It's a fair point. Kinda decided not to go. She is mostly a decent girl and doesn't really deserve me going along an hitting on her friends. Plus I'm better off seeking pastures new.
 
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It's a fair point. Kinda decided not to go. She is mostly a decent girl and doesn't really deserve me going along an hitting on her friends. Plus I'm better off seeking pastures new.
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Exactly.

"No, thanks. I have a date."

That should do it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MidnightCity said:
i cant stand when female relatives/friends bring new bfs to a gathering and dont leave their side all night. they look like losers to me.
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I have been that loser before, a long time ago. Never again.
 
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