"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EX's Birthday Party... Go?

Bigg Boss

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I would just say no if it wasn't a POOL party. I don't exactly know if it'll be deep out there but I feel that there is a good chance that she'll have alot of people there.

On facebook she posted the event and I got an invitation (not all 100 of her facebookfriends got one so it seems as though i was handpicked).

If I'm not sprung on this gurl, why do I wanna go you ask? Because for one, she goes to another school and has a bunch of friends that I don't know (mostly the females are that I care about). I've seen some pictures and they pretty.

She don't ever call me anymore, so I mean... I dunno. We just sent a couple of messages back and forth thru myspace. This is a party that could be the jumpoff so I do kinda wanna go, but confronting my ex (especially if her new boyfriend is there, I'mma have to try extra hard not to "be nice") is another story.

If I do go though, I'mma bring like a crew so... OK I think I'll go.

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go yoo meet more girls fuk moo bittches!
lol joking but seriously you should goo.. at least u wont have any bad terms between the two of u... go and u will meet new girls

newn umbers :)
 

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Hmm, I didn't think about bringin a date.

typical, that seems like a good idea
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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oh yeah

u should go there and try to fvck as many of her friends as possible
 

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If it weren't her birthday party I'd say go ahead and sarge the women there. I wouldn't do it because it's her birthday party so the majority of who she invited would be her friends. What are the chances that your ex hadn't told them about you and your breakup? What kind of attitude would these people have toward you? Isn't this why you asked whether you should go or not?

I say bring a date. At least she will be with you and be there for your behalf, not your ex's. In a nutshell, she'd have your back. Your ex and her friends will see that you have successfully moved on. Plus it'll give them all something to talk about and you can watch in amusement as they react to you and your date.:up:
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
If it wasn't her birthday party I'd say go ahead and sarge the women there. I wouldn't do it because it's her birthday party so the majority of who she invited would be her friends[/i]. What are the chances that your ex hadn't told them about you and your breakup? What kind of attitude would these people have for you? Isn't this why you asked whether you should go or not?

I say bring a date. At least she will be with you and be there for you behalf, not your ex's. In a nutshell, she'd have your back. Your ex and her friends will see that you have successfully moved on. Plus it'll give them all something to talk about and you can watch in amusement as they react to you and your date.:up:

Ahhahaha

I love you guys.

Yeah it's official, I'm bringin a date.
 
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