"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EX's Birthday Party... Go?

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I would just say no if it wasn't a POOL party. I don't exactly know if it'll be deep out there but I feel that there is a good chance that she'll have alot of people there.

On facebook she posted the event and I got an invitation (not all 100 of her facebookfriends got one so it seems as though i was handpicked).

If I'm not sprung on this gurl, why do I wanna go you ask? Because for one, she goes to another school and has a bunch of friends that I don't know (mostly the females are that I care about). I've seen some pictures and they pretty.

She don't ever call me anymore, so I mean... I dunno. We just sent a couple of messages back and forth thru myspace. This is a party that could be the jumpoff so I do kinda wanna go, but confronting my ex (especially if her new boyfriend is there, I'mma have to try extra hard not to "be nice") is another story.

If I do go though, I'mma bring like a crew so... OK I think I'll go.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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go yoo meet more girls fuk moo bittches!
lol joking but seriously you should goo.. at least u wont have any bad terms between the two of u... go and u will meet new girls

newn umbers :)
 
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Hmm, I didn't think about bringin a date.

typical, that seems like a good idea
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oh yeah

u should go there and try to fvck as many of her friends as possible
 
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If it weren't her birthday party I'd say go ahead and sarge the women there. I wouldn't do it because it's her birthday party so the majority of who she invited would be her friends. What are the chances that your ex hadn't told them about you and your breakup? What kind of attitude would these people have toward you? Isn't this why you asked whether you should go or not?

I say bring a date. At least she will be with you and be there for your behalf, not your ex's. In a nutshell, she'd have your back. Your ex and her friends will see that you have successfully moved on. Plus it'll give them all something to talk about and you can watch in amusement as they react to you and your date.:up:
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
If it wasn't her birthday party I'd say go ahead and sarge the women there. I wouldn't do it because it's her birthday party so the majority of who she invited would be her friends[/i]. What are the chances that your ex hadn't told them about you and your breakup? What kind of attitude would these people have for you? Isn't this why you asked whether you should go or not?

I say bring a date. At least she will be with you and be there for you behalf, not your ex's. In a nutshell, she'd have your back. Your ex and her friends will see that you have successfully moved on. Plus it'll give them all something to talk about and you can watch in amusement as they react to you and your date.:up:
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Ahhahaha

I love you guys.

Yeah it's official, I'm bringin a date.
 
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