"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Expressing Feelings... Should I Nxt Her?

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Chemistry

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Basically, girl asks me every 10 minutes or so, "What are you thinkin'?" or "Say Something..."

Problem being, I run my **** with the action not words kinda philosophy, so I'm low key on the talkin' about feelings etc etc, and at the end of the day I'm a guy... I've only been seein' her 6 weeks and I want to ****, not recite poetry to her

Now, I do enjoy her but the whole insecurity thing does get to the point that it's a nag I mean she talks about needin to hear things, and each time I have to run it down to her with the action not words talk... but end of the day it is good sex, ahd she has a car which acts as her drivin' me round and makin' **** that much easier...

Anyone got any ideas on somethings I can say to keep her from this constant cravin' of wantin to know what I'm thinkin?

Or should I just next her...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chewy Bagel

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You could tell her that it bothers you when she asks you questions like that. Bluntly tell her to stop asking you questions like the the ones she has been asking (give her examples).
 
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Starman

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bottom line..

she is asking what you are feeling about her.,.

you have 2 options

1) Emote and make her eventually think she can hook you as a b/f

2) Mantain being cold..in which she will leave you in a couple weeks thinking all you want is sex
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tell her what your thinking. is it that hard? silence isnt all its cracked up to be
 
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